potatostripes
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- Nov 12, 2020
- 10
Hey!
You know, i really like writing threads and blogs and stuff, it brings me a lot of joy. But sometimes it happens that people find something offensive or somehow not okay or are just in a bad mood and write some mean and angry comments. As soon as I see that, this thread (or blog) becomes something that makes me feel more and more anxious and I'm scared everytime I klick on it. It can be a minor insult or just an angry tone in their message. But in my head I feel super emberassed about what I wrote even if my intentions were not mean at all.
I know that I have to get a thicker skin. And I'm working on it. But I feel that often people are going against the wrong person. I don't think it's a bad thing to be sensitive. And I think that some people really don't know what it feels like to totally hate yourself and questioning your whole personality again just because you told people about your feelings. It always takes a while for me to understand that I didn't do anything (and I always go through what I wrote to see if I actually didn't have any bad intentions).
So what I want to say in this thread is: Look how you spread your anger. We live in a society where everyone is constantly scared of people being mad at them so try to avoid any unneccessary hate against people.
But I also want to say that anger is not always bad. There are some situations when it's really useful, for example when a person doesn't listen to you any other way but it's important. Because sometimes people advertise to just get rid of this emotion at all.
Just use it out of your heart and not to gain power over someone or to push your ego :)
You know, i really like writing threads and blogs and stuff, it brings me a lot of joy. But sometimes it happens that people find something offensive or somehow not okay or are just in a bad mood and write some mean and angry comments. As soon as I see that, this thread (or blog) becomes something that makes me feel more and more anxious and I'm scared everytime I klick on it. It can be a minor insult or just an angry tone in their message. But in my head I feel super emberassed about what I wrote even if my intentions were not mean at all.
I know that I have to get a thicker skin. And I'm working on it. But I feel that often people are going against the wrong person. I don't think it's a bad thing to be sensitive. And I think that some people really don't know what it feels like to totally hate yourself and questioning your whole personality again just because you told people about your feelings. It always takes a while for me to understand that I didn't do anything (and I always go through what I wrote to see if I actually didn't have any bad intentions).
So what I want to say in this thread is: Look how you spread your anger. We live in a society where everyone is constantly scared of people being mad at them so try to avoid any unneccessary hate against people.
But I also want to say that anger is not always bad. There are some situations when it's really useful, for example when a person doesn't listen to you any other way but it's important. Because sometimes people advertise to just get rid of this emotion at all.
Just use it out of your heart and not to gain power over someone or to push your ego :)