should i engage with my ex?

[inanotherlife]

so my ex and I have been separated for about 5 months. during the entire 3year relationship, most the pictures we took were on my phone. should I share an album of our pictures before I cbt? we ended on decent terms just are in no communication

 

[Mr.Tristesse]

Share with your ex?

 

[MatrixPrisoner]

If your death being romanticized is something you care to happen, I wouldn't. Otherwise, feel free.

 

[inanotherlife]

Share with your ex?

yes share the album of our photos and places visited

If your death being romanticized is something you care to happen, I wouldn't. Otherwise, feel free.

silence is needed for romanticized death?

 

[Mr.Tristesse]

yes share the album of our photos and places visited

Do you think they would want to have those?

 

[inanotherlife]

Do you think they would want to have those?

I would. I suppose I can't really ask bc then she'll know something is wrong

 

[Mr.Tristesse]

I would. I suppose I can't really ask bc then she'll know something is wrong

Have you purposefully been avoiding communicating with each other? Or was just the course that things naturally took after the breakup?

 

[inanotherlife]

Have you purposefully been avoiding communicating with each other? Or was just the course that things naturally took after the breakup?

we aren't blocked and are friends on social media. I guess there isn't too much to talk abt lol

 

[Mr.Tristesse]

we aren't blocked and are friends on social media. I guess there isn't too much to talk abt lol

If you are on good terms then they would probably want to have the pictures they don't have.

 

[raindrops]

so my ex and I have been separated for about 5 months. during the entire 3year relationship, most the pictures we took were on my phone. should I share an album of our pictures before I cbt? we ended on decent terms just are in no communication

I shared mine already. He ignores me, after 15 years. We were together every single day and it was so beautiful and so happy, until I pushed him away. I was so very nasty, my mind was evil, and I perceived terrible things. I'm so mentally unwell and drained but I gave him photos so when I do go he can sit and think about how he should of had more faith in me, I was getting medication, I had therapy on the 4th of January and he left me with no faith that my mind can heal.

 

[inanotherlife]

If you are on good terms then they would probably want to have the pictures they don't have.

thank you for your insight. definitely helpful with a diff perspective

I shared mine already. He ignores me, after 15 years. We were together every single day and it was so beautiful and so happy, until I pushed him away. I was so very nasty, my mind was evil, and I perceived terrible things. I'm so mentally unwell and drained but I gave him photos so when I do go he can sit and think about how he should of had more faith in me, I was getting medication, I had therapy on the 4th of January and he left me with no faith that my mind can heal.

I'm sorry that played out that way :/ did he respond at all to you sharing it? he definitely wont be able to avoid that, maybe that's why he is avoiding you so much, because the loss is real and he is avoiding it

I shared mine already. He ignores me, after 15 years. We were together every single day and it was so beautiful and so happy, until I pushed him away. I was so very nasty, my mind was evil, and I perceived terrible things. I'm so mentally unwell and drained but I gave him photos so when I do go he can sit and think about how he should of had more faith in me, I was getting medication, I had therapy on the 4th of January and he left me with no faith that my mind can heal.

I'm sorry that played out that way :/ did he respond at all to you sharing it? he definitely wont be able to avoid that, maybe that's why he is avoiding you so much, because the loss is real and he is avoiding it