Pee Boy
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- Jan 23, 2023
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How do you deal with self harm scars as a man?
I am a man with self harm scars all over my left forearm, I can't wear short sleeved t-shirts ofcourse, and I have accepted that fact for many years, however, there's something that makes it very difficult for me to live with my scars and that is the opinions of others.
Why is it that men with self harm scars are seen as effeminate or girly? What does gender or sexuality even have to do with it? I once came clean to one of my friends about my scars and he jokingly said "are you one of those gay emos?"
It was a stupid joke and I laughed it off, however it still hurt you know and of course made me less confident in ever showing my arms again. I don't want to be seen as weak, I don't want to be seen as an easy target. Am I supposed to hide them for the rest of my life...
I am a man with self harm scars all over my left forearm, I can't wear short sleeved t-shirts ofcourse, and I have accepted that fact for many years, however, there's something that makes it very difficult for me to live with my scars and that is the opinions of others.
Why is it that men with self harm scars are seen as effeminate or girly? What does gender or sexuality even have to do with it? I once came clean to one of my friends about my scars and he jokingly said "are you one of those gay emos?"
It was a stupid joke and I laughed it off, however it still hurt you know and of course made me less confident in ever showing my arms again. I don't want to be seen as weak, I don't want to be seen as an easy target. Am I supposed to hide them for the rest of my life...