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Endoflifecomestoall

Student
Oct 31, 2021
120
How do people know when it is "the right time"?
 
Rayzieka

Rayzieka

Not Really Here
Apr 28, 2021
637
For me it will be when I can't justify staying around, down to the smallest things.
When minimal people will be hurt by it.
My goal is to wait until there's no way anyone will blame themselves for it.
 
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cambrai33

Traveller
Nov 3, 2021
386
Tough question, for me it was when I had exhausted all options of help that I could access. This was to at least give myself a chance.

Now my idealation is so strong that it's within weeks, funny enough I just got off of the phone with the doctor and there are no appointments until middle of January……..that is almost certainly too late for me unfortunately
 
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LADY007

LADY007

Specialist
Feb 25, 2020
373
How do people know when it is "the right time"?
I would say.. it is a two step process. First issue is ...must have the method thoroughly researched and practiced, if possible. Secondly, ask yourself if there are reasons why a certain date would not be a good time.
 
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Belljar

Member
Nov 13, 2021
81
When you can't take it anymore. I'm almost there.
 
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Kobusu

Kobusu

Writer
Oct 18, 2021
268
When I attempt, it's usually because I snap and can't take the pain anymore. I'm trying to be logical about it and do it when I'm not near loved ones, but I think I might snap again. It gets harder every day
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
43,946
I believe that it will be a feeling deep down that you know it is time to leave, and you have no more doubts and you are certain about your decision. For me, I know it will be the right time when the pain of living gets to be unbearable, only then I believe I will be able to overcome the SI.
 
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Endoflifecomestoall

Student
Oct 31, 2021
120
I believe that it will be a feeling deep down that you know it is time to leave, and you have no more doubts and you are certain about your decision. For me, I know it will be the right time when the pain of living gets to be unbearable, only then I believe I will be able to overcome the SI.
Same here.
I believe that "fate" puts certain events together to make certain things happen
 
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Fadeawaaaay

Fadeawaaaay

Visionary
Nov 12, 2021
2,160
It's definitely the right time. I am just too lazy to organize.
 

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