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crystalskies31

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May 20, 2022
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So I'm looking at an air bnb to CTB in.
It seems likely that it'll be near or in a city. I don't drive and would maybe need to access food easily.

If I rented a flat in a city, would that be a good idea in terms of not being disturbed / SN? Anything that can go wrong?

Other options are rent a whole house (but often that's expensive and you'd still have neighbours), or rent a cabin (often at the end of a garden etc so less private).

I would have liked to go somewhere more secluded but don't drive

Note - My ideal thing is that it's in an area I'm familiar with even vaguely, that I can stay there a while (say if I have an attempt that doesn't work out, I can try again next day) and that it's not the owners main place where they live but just a place they rent out. Essentially to cause minimum trouble, I want it to be as un-traumatic as possible.
 
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I think it's important to not be found. I guess having your own place is best, you never know, even if you walk somewhere secluded you could get found. Depending on method too.
 
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Someone123

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So I'm looking at an air bnb to CTB in.
It seems likely that it'll be near or in a city. I don't drive and would maybe need to access food easily.

If I rented a flat in a city, would that be a good idea in terms of not being disturbed / SN? Anything that can go wrong?

Other options are rent a whole house (but often that's expensive and you'd still have neighbours), or rent a cabin (often at the end of a garden etc so less private).

I would have liked to go somewhere more secluded but don't drive

Note - My ideal thing is that it's in an area I'm familiar with even vaguely, that I can stay there a while (say if I have an attempt that doesn't work out, I can try again next day) and that it's not the owners main place where they live but just a place they rent out. Essentially to cause minimum trouble, I want it to be as un-traumatic as possible.
One thing to keep in mind is that people who rent out airbnb's and renting out a property they have a lot of investment in and they are very careful of the property and look for anything suspicious. If one person is renting a whole house they could be very sispicious of this and refuse to rent and possibly post a bad review about you on air bnb. They obviously don't want to have a situation like this- when people die they usually leave a mess and they don't want this reputation anyway. For example if someone uses Sn there can be a big mess of vomit and poop and pee, plus it would need to be investigated by police, which could mean they can't rent for a while- they could have to cancel other reservations.
 
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crystalskies31

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May 20, 2022
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One thing to keep in mind is that people who rent out airbnb's and renting out a property they have a lot of investment in and they are very careful of the property and look for anything suspicious. If one person is renting a whole house they could be very sispicious of this and refuse to rent and possibly post a bad review about you on air bnb. They obviously don't want to have a situation like this- when people die they usually leave a mess and they don't want this reputation anyway. For example if someone uses Sn there can be a big mess of vomit and poop and pee, plus it would need to be investigated by police, which could mean they can't rent for a while- they could have to cancel other reservations.
Thanks! Yes for this reason I thought maybe an apartment - one that isn't a main residence for the owners.

Does SN create any mess apart from… my body?
 
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Thanks! Yes for this reason I thought maybe an apartment - one that isn't a main residence for the owners.

Does SN create any mess apart from… my body?
Sn can create a mess of vomiting, in some cases projectile vomiting that goes all over, though I don't think this happens in all cases at all. Dying by any means will create a mess of poop and pee- these will be released from your body. Putting down a thick plastic tarp could lessen the damage.
 

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