Discussion reasons to kill yourself?

[tchaik18401893]

why do you want to kill yourself? What would you say to convince another person they want to kill themself?

 

[Lonerzepam]

Plenty...
Why should I do that?

 

[downndone2]

My reasons, I ruined my life and so many relationships after some shitty mistakes several yra ago. Just keeps haunting me. My anxiety and depression are crippling.

I would never want to convince anyone else to do such a thing though

 

[WorthlessTrash]

I am born the wrong sex and have a seething envy of cis women.

I would not want to convince someone else to CTB. That should be their own decision. Wtf?

 

[Faejin]

I lied and split family into two sides. One supporting my story and one being kicked while down with no way out. Kind phucked up a shit ton of stuff for my father.
I want to apologise for all that shit I did and just head out. Living with my own mistakes by this point is proving too much.

 

[kit.]

If you fail life then your wasting the gift of life and would be better off giving the space, in this hellish world, to another born child to, is what I think and is why I hate being here.
Though for others, I'd tell them to enjoy the gift of life even if they don't to. My friend always said even if you wanna die, you never know if your god or I'm god and if you really don't care about that then spite this world with every living day of your being. I'd never want to convince someone of death. I fear that if it actually happens and there sitting there almost dead, that they might regret it and feel stupid and wish they could go back.

 

[alivefornow]

Lost hope in the future, relationships and pretty much everything. No reason to stay and withstand crippling emotional pain when there's nothing making the strife worth it.

 

[Dot]

What would you say to convince another person they want to kill themself?

On ths forum nothng -- ppl r only respnsble fr thr own decsns hre

 

[StrangeAndDeath]

I feel living is pointless and I cannot justify the struggle to maintain something so pointless and horrid. The only reason I'm still here is because of inaccessibility of methods. I intend to make more money so I can get the resources I need to ctb.

I don't want to convince anyone that their lives are not worth living. It's their life and their problem.

 

[WeepingWillow]

Let see not being able to leave a hospital bed for starters. Being in a managed care facility that should be shut down by the state. Not being able to be in the comfort of my home with my loving Mom and beautiful dog. Christ I could go on all day but suffice it to say everything sucks and I dont want to be here any more.

Also I wouldn't try to convince someone. Some people are blithely and blissfully unaware in this life. YMMV mine sure did.

 

[FuneralCry]

The existence of something so awful as life itself is certainly enough of a reason to make me wish to die. I certainly don't wish to be burdened with existence and I despise existing here. To have the ability to exist is such a curse, and to exist simply means to suffer and life in itself is something harmful as we risk experiencing worse torture at any moment. Ending our existence could never need a reason or need to be justified, leaving this world and being able to not exist for all eternity is the only thing that could ever be a relief for me. I believe that non existence is always preferable no matter what to staying here and that existence could never be worth enduring.

But I think that after all, suicide is a personal decision, it's not really something to convince others to do, if someone sees suicide as being the best option for them they will come to that conclusion on their own.

 

[Lunareonn]

First of all I would never convince anyone to do that, I think it's immoral to convince or push someone towards suicide. Let them make the decision.
For reasons to die? I don't want to be here, amongst human beings that I've grown to hate so much over the years. I have been treated like I'm not human for a lot of my life, and it's scarred me for life. It has tainted how I see people, tainted my trust in others. I doubt everyone, my family, my friends, mutual friends, FUCK i even doubt my significant other sometimes. I also don't want to live until 80 or even more, it's absurd.

 

[RichardFirst]

I would never try to convince someone to end their own life.

For my own part, I am here because I am tired of life. It's as simple as that.

 

[bornintohell]

I never had the desire to live since 9yrs old. I never understood why everyone would wake up and spend 24hrs on repetition.what i do know that I deserve to give myself the life I want .permanently separately from the world. I deserve death more than anything.

 

[Yuta32]

High anxiety, depression, mental issues, my relationship where I felt safe abandoned me when I needed it the most, and I am incapable of saving myself from so many things alone.

 

[hhmmmm]

Depression, anxiety, family issues, job issues, school issues, living and probably other issues that I cannot think of right now. I don't want to keep going but I'm so scared to make an attempt again. Life is just too much for me and I feel like a big burden.

 

[brokeandbroken]

why do you want to kill yourself? What would you say to convince another person they want to kill themself?

Every situation is unique. I want to kill myself because I work my ass off in life. Then had my future stolen. I have an undergraduate degree then went to medical school where I was the victim of crimes by the medical school and forced out. Therefore my future was literally stolen. Turns out if don't finish medical school you are unbelievably unemployable. Despite taking and passing some of the hardest undergrad courses you can take no one wants you. Meaning any chance of a good life is gone for me. The *best* job I could get was a medical assembler making 732$/week assembling medical equipment I should be telling someone to use for me. Even most of that was just putting stickers on bags. I am homeless. I'm not addicted to drugs I have had 2 beers in all of 2023. I just have an absurd amount of debt and can't get a job. I have no family or friends they all ran for the hills. I think every person is different. I think you should explore every option and it is a last resort. If you family/friends say fuck you, all employers say fuck you, if just life says fuck you. Then yeah it's an option. Life handed me a big ass fuck you. I'd rather be dead then homeless much longer. Frankly the longer time goes the angrier I get. I don't want to hurt anyone and it's becoming more and more likely. I feel robbed and no one is there to have my back.

Whether or not I could still be a success I don't know. Unlikely. It seems like my career potential is severely capped. Seems like 70/80k is about my max earning potential. Combined with significant health issues that will arise from being homeless and broke. Not worth it. That says nothing about not having a family or friends. I just have no joy in life. No one for me. Dying is about my only option unfortunately.

 

[oh_no191]

Everything in my life sucks

I would never try to convince someone. That's a low I won't go to.

 

[Praestat_Mori]

A fucked up life with no chance to recover

 

[miserableforever]

why do you want to kill yourself? What would you say to convince another person they want to kill themself?

My parents abandoning me caused Borderline later on in life. I ruined my whole life.

 

[love_peep]

My parents abandoning me caused Borderline later on in life. I ruined my whole life.

im so too

 

[SweetRolls3]

After a lifetime of betrayal and abuse, I've come to the conclusion that there is something fundamentally wrong with me that causes others to hold little value in my companionship and presence. Despite feeling very deeply for those I care about, and putting 110% into being the best daughter, girlfriend, and person I can be - it's not enough. It never has been enough, and I'm reaching the conclusion that it never will be enough. I think I would be better off dead.

I would never try to convince someone else to leave this world. It's a personal decision.