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[BeansOfRequirement]

Thanks for viewing the thread. Now, I need advice on how to regain sensitivity in my D.

 

[[HNO]]

porn addiction sucks fr
i'd use more proteins in a diet and some vitamin complex for body regen and for replenishment for nutrients lost in a masturbation session and stopped edging, just wank on first video you stumble upon without this 'i will look for a better video', it's really consuming but you pay with porn tetris syndrome as you closing your eyes in a bed plus d and balls suffers from it(spine too) and for me it's another liter of daily suicide fuel, imagine you want to imagine a perfect life but repeating in your head what shit you watched over and over instead. though i don't have motivation to follow this advice, literally only happiness left for me(after becoming an hero)

 

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[Celerity]

Does porn really make men's dicks stop working? If so, I guess abstaining from masturbation would work, but I know that's easier said then done. I tend to do it all the time even though I don't get much out of it. Lately, I've felt like a desperately unsatisfied nympho.

 

[whatevs]

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Pragmatism!

Does porn really make men's dicks stop working? If so, I guess abstaining from masturbation would work, but I know that's easier said then done. I tend to do it all the time even though I don't get much out of it. Lately, I've felt like a desperately unsatisfied nympho.

Yeah porn is a strong stimulus at first which means it will burn out your ability to gain pleasure from sexuality over time.

It's also much easily accesible than sex. I imagine excessive sex could have a similar but less harmful effect.

 

[Celerity]

Pragmatism!

Yeah porn is a strong stimulus at first which means it will burn out your ability to gain pleasure from sexuality over time.

It's also much easily accesible than sex. I imagine excessive sex could have a similar but less harmful effect.

Hm. I'll have to look into that. Sex addicts are interesting if sad. I know my tastes have been warped by erotica. The porn that I've seen hasn't had much effect. However, I have probably watched only an hour or two in total despite pushing 30.

 

[Cathy Ames]

Maybe this?

https://www.thestranger.com/savage-love/2018/09/18/32529858/another-sufferer-of-death-grip-syndrome [has additional internal links]

Are You Squeezing Your Penis Too Hard When You Jerk Off?

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[whatevs]

Hm. I'll have to look into that. Sex addicts are interesting if sad. I know my tastes have been warped by erotica. The porn that I've seen hasn't had much effect. However, I have probably watched only an hour or two in total despite pushing 30.

Oh, I must have been at least 100 hours of the stuff.

 

[callme]

Oh, I must have been at least 100 hours of the stuff.

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[Raskolnikov's Axe]

Stop Cooming for a while. It should do the trick.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Maybe this?

https://www.thestranger.com/savage-love/2018/09/18/32529858/another-sufferer-of-death-grip-syndrome [has additional internal links]

Are You Squeezing Your Penis Too Hard When You Jerk Off?

It could be messing with your sex life.

www.menshealth.com

Yeah, death grip is the cause, along with a porn addiction from the age of 12. But the death grip only really started maybe somewhere between one and five years ago.

Tried to quit porn several times. I can quit caffeine, nicotine and alcohol; but not porn for some reason. Anyway, the goal is just to get sensitivity back for masturbating to porn. I am never going to get a girlfriend or have real sex. I am trying some supplements, no real effect so far (but I've been sick, so I'll see if there's an effect later). Also trying to keep the masturbation sessions short, to the point, and without any edging. Presently, I can't jack off in any other way (change hands/stand up/etc) than which I'm used to, which renders a lot of advice null.

Same as when I first joined the forum, I only have one reason to kill myself: Never having had a girlfriend and never going to have one. And it's not about the sex, it's about the self-esteem boost. Back when I was attractive I had no need to take things further than to know that I was wanted. But, the two things are undoubtedly connected. If I could rely on myself for sexual satisfaction, I believe some portion of the whole problem would be filled (no pun intended). But, the biggest help would be if I could find something that would make me believe that I mattered somehow. Used to be that I was amped up on teenage narcissism (depressing fact: this was also what made me attractive to women, en serio), and thought myself to be very intelligent and that I was going places. But now, I have literally nothing going for me.

Slightly tangential to the meme (enjoyed the meme, just had this leftover rant from other people online), I wish that it would be as big of a trend to be anti casual sex as it is to be against porn. To me, when I see a hook-up partaker diss porn; it's like seeing a serial killer talk about how he's taking a stand against pickpocketing (well, Ted Bundy unironically talked about how porn was bad at one point).

Stop Cooming for a while. It should do the trick.

Think I only managed 6 days a couple of times, it did not do the trick.

 

[Celerity]

Yeah, death grip is the cause, along with a porn addiction from the age of 12. But the death grip only really started maybe somewhere between one and five years ago.

Tried to quit porn several times. I can quit caffeine, nicotine and alcohol; but not porn for some reason. Anyway, the goal is just to get sensitivity back for masturbating to porn. I am never going to get a girlfriend or have real sex. I am trying some supplements, no real effect so far (but I've been sick, so I'll see if there's an effect later). Also trying to keep the masturbation sessions short, to the point, and without any edging. Presently, I can't jack off in any other way (change hands/stand up/etc) than which I'm used to, which renders a lot of advice null.

Same as when I first joined the forum, I only have one reason to kill myself: Never having had a girlfriend and never going to have one. And it's not about the sex, it's about the self-esteem boost. Back when I was attractive I had no need to take things further than to know that I was wanted. But, the two things are undoubtedly connected. If I could rely on myself for sexual satisfaction, I believe some portion of the whole problem would be filled (no pun intended). But, the biggest help would be if I could find something that would make me believe that I mattered somehow. Used to be that I was amped up on teenage narcissism (depressing fact: this was also what made me attractive to women, en serio), and thought myself to be very intelligent and that I was going places. But now, I have literally nothing going for me.

Slightly tangential to the meme (enjoyed the meme, just had this leftover rant from other people online), I wish that it would be as big of a trend to be anti casual sex as it is to be against porn. To me, when I see a hook-up partaker diss porn; it's like seeing a serial killer talk about how he's taking a stand against pickpocketing (well, Ted Bundy unironically talked about how porn was bad at one point).


Think I only managed 6 days a couple of times, it did not do the trick.

If you don't mind me asking, what about your appearance changed that you are now unattractive.

 

[WhatPowerIs]

Thanks for viewing the thread. Now, I need advice on how to regain sensitivity in my D.

You always put a smile on my face but don't coom too hard or else you'll go bald...

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

If you don't mind me asking, what about your appearance changed that you are now unattractive.

Appearance-wise, mostly things that are supposedly fixable. I now have acne and a worse posture, some teeth yellowing, don't really groom much or get haircuts, I don't dress well and my body language is fucked. Physique is probably at the same level all-around, but I am heavier now. It's mostly the psychosocial stuff that has now made me unattractive (autism, unemployment, neediness, etc(x10). Worst thing is the acne, since I can't fix it despite now having changed pillowcases more or less daily for a month or two (and tried products which only made it worse).

 

[Celerity]

Appearance-wise, mostly things that are supposedly fixable. I now have acne and a worse posture, some teeth yellowing, don't really groom much or get haircuts, I don't dress well and my body language is fucked. Physique is probably at the same level all-around, but I am heavier now. It's mostly the psychosocial stuff that has now made me unattractive (autism, unemployment, neediness, etc(x10). Worst thing is the acne, since I can't fix it despite now having changed pillowcases more or less daily for a month or two (and tried products which only made it worse).

I have adult acne too, but it is hormonal. My teeth have been yellow for years because I have bad genes. They're not rotting, just tinted yellow.

Confidence is very important, especially for men.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Confidence is very important, especially for men.

Don't think I lack confidence or self-esteem in an emotional sense. I'm just realistic about how unattractive I am with all things considered (live with parents, autism, unemployment, most women in the same spot can still afford to be very picky, no friends, not interested in much, dead inside, can't form attachments to other people, dick is numb, anhedonic, crying several times per week, never been on a date, rejected everyone that liked me back when I was attractive [guessing I might do that shit again if I was given another chance], when I tried online dating it didn't work, just too many things to mention).

Anyway, guess I can cope and say that going by how confident someone is seems fucking retarded and I want nothing to do with such a person.

 

[Celerity]

Don't think I lack confidence or self-esteem in an emotional sense. I'm just realistic about how unattractive I am with all things considered (live with parents, autism, unemployment, most women in the same spot can still afford to be very picky, no friends, not interested in much, dead inside, can't form attachments to other people, dick is numb, anhedonic, crying several times per week, never been on a date, rejected everyone that liked me back when I was attractive [guessing I might do that shit again if I was given another chance], when I tried online dating it didn't work, just too many things to mention).

Anyway, guess I can cope and say that going by how confident someone is seems fucking retarded and I want nothing to do with such a person.

Fair enough. My mom is shocked that I don't feel accomplished working low level at a grocery store…..

She keeps saying, "Well, that's going to change. You won't be there forever". Even if that's true, I don't have much going for me at the moment.

 

[Teddybear]

Porn is what you make of it. Societies that are anti-porn have legalized arranged marriages for a reason.

Its not natural for (wo)men to be asexual. If you can't find a partner or your other half "won't give you any" then what are you supposed to do with the pressure from the strongest force in the human universe?

A society that outlaws pornography should legalize castration - if just for pitty's sake

 

[summers]

Yeah porn is a strong stimulus at first which means it will burn out your ability to gain pleasure from sexuality over time.

At 40, I've watched porn more than half my life. It doesn't do anything to one's ability to get pleasure from sex. They are two completely separate things. Porn is strictly to get off. Sex is to be close to someone, to enjoy the feeling of intimacy, to want to make someone else feel good and not just yourself.

Now, if you just view your partner as a fleshlight or dildo, that really has nothing to do with porn, and is more a personality disorder.

It's also much easily accesible than sex. I imagine excessive sex could have a similar but less harmful effect.

At worst, a lot of sex can desensitize your penis some. Not long term, but if you fuck for an hour straight, things just kind of go numb. I'm sure it does for women too.

I have adult acne too, but it is hormonal. My teeth have been yellow for years because I have bad genes. They're not rotting, just tinted yellow.

Confidence is very important, especially for men.

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[BeansOfRequirement]

My mom is shocked that I don't feel accomplished working low level at a grocery store…..

She keeps saying, "Well, that's going to change. You won't be there forever". Even if that's true, I don't have much going for me at the moment.

Not trying to roast you or anything, this just read like one of those comments Skyrim NPCs put out when you walk past them in Windhelm or some shit. My mind is scrambled, apologies.

Guess it was relevant to the topic of not being confident. My parents used to straight up say I'd have a gf, lord knows they've stopped now.

 

[whatevs]

At 40, I've watched porn more than half my life. It doesn't do anything to one's ability to get pleasure from sex. They are two completely separate things.

I guess all the men experiencing ED after porn addiction are suffering from some personality disorder that affects their dicks then.

 

[summers]

I guess all the men experiencing ED after porn addiction are suffering from some personality disorder that affects their dicks then.

Pretty much, or circulatory or heart issues. If you can get a hard on with Viagra or Cialis, your problem is physical, not mental.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Pretty much, or circulatory or heart issues. If you can get a hard on with Viagra or Cialis, your problem is physical, not mental.

I can get rock hard and explode fast, but my D is hecking numb and shit. I did read it could be low testosterone. But since everything but the sensitivity works, points to friction damage. I mean, almost all other markers of testosterone and general health are the same as when I could enjoy cooming a few years back. I can't believe it's largely health-related or psychological. I mean, play the guitar and your fingertips lose sensitivity, this is the same thing. I also remember thinking "fuck it" and putting Darth Vader to shame with my death grip two or three years back, and keeping it up for a long time.

your problem is physical, not mental.

Btw, those are linked bro. Especially when discussing erections and stuff like that.

 

[summers]

Btw, those are linked bro. Especially when discussing erections and stuff like that.

I was saying under the specific circumstance that you can get hard on meds, but not without.

 

[GasMonkey]

I'm on the same boat, 38yo KHHV.

 

[tabletop]

Why is this thread labeled as a resource as a reminder to all women?