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FrozenMango

FrozenMango

Hello from the other side
Aug 16, 2022
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I started doing research on pre-planned cremation services and steps needed to complete one. I am confused about the process. If i ctb, how would the cremation company know i died? Does anyone have advice after cremation/funeral arrangements?

Thanks
 
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flightless bird

flightless bird

somewhere over the rainbow
Aug 18, 2022
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Why bother? We have no business with our bodies once we catch the bus.
 
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I started doing research on pre-planned cremation services and steps needed to complete one. I am confused about the process. If i ctb, how would the cremation company know i died? Does anyone have advice after cremation/funeral arrangements?

Thanks
It varies from place to place, but usually, when someone dies, there's a lot of paperwork involved and they will look if you have funerary plans, if you left a will, etc.

I also want to be cremated, but where I live, it's really complicated.
 
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theboy

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You have to leave a note to your relatives with the company's contact information
Simply write your wishes and last wishes. That is my advice
 
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I started doing research on pre-planned cremation services and steps needed to complete one. I am confused about the process. If i ctb, how would the cremation company know i died? Does anyone have advice after cremation/funeral arrangements?

Thanks
I just finished doing this. I spoke with an attorney first (to draft a will) and she asked me if I planned on making pre-paid burial plans. She said it would be a good idea to do that first, so that details could be included in my will. So, I did. In my case, I really have no one to contact when I die, maybe some distant cousins that I don't speak with. They're not part of my will, but I'll mention them in the note I'll be leaving with details regarding my will and that I have a pre-paid cremation plan already paid for and set-up. I, also, had my will filed with the county court where I live. Also, in my case, I plan on sending a letter to my local police department telling them what I did, where I live, what precautions they need to take, that kind of thing, so that they can find me. I'm considering sending a letter, also, to the attorney who drafted my will, telling her that if sh received this letter then it is safe to assume I have died and she can handle my estate, along with the court-appointed executor. This way multiple people will know that I have a pre-paid cremation plan, too. So, it should all work out one way or another. I guess I can't care too much after I'm gone, anyway.
 
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FrozenMango

FrozenMango

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Aug 16, 2022
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I just finished doing this. I spoke with an attorney first (to draft a will) and she asked me if I planned on making pre-paid burial plans. She said it would be a good idea to do that first, so that details could be included in my will. So, I did. In my case, I really have no one to contact when I die, maybe some distant cousins that I don't speak with. They're not part of my will, but I'll mention them in the note I'll be leaving with details regarding my will and that I have a pre-paid cremation plan already paid for and set-up. I, also, had my will filed with the county court where I live. Also, in my case, I plan on sending a letter to my local police department telling them what I did, where I live, what precautions they need to take, that kind of thing, so that they can find me. I'm considering sending a letter, also, to the attorney who drafted my will, telling her that if sh received this letter then it is safe to assume I have died and she can handle my estate, along with the court-appointed executor. This way multiple people will know that I have a pre-paid cremation plan, too. So, it should all work out one way or another. I guess I can't care too much after I'm gone, anyway.
This is a very helpful reaponse, thank you.

I am like you. I don't have close family. Suicide is considered a taboo and a sin in my culture. Did the cremation companies ask you about your parents and next of kin? I don't know how to avoid the requirement
 
blackwidow

blackwidow

Road to nowhere
Aug 12, 2022
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if your in the UK it's not difficult or complicated at all. go to the funeral home tell them what you want and if you have no family or friends leave the paper work that can easily be found when they remove the body.
 
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This is a very helpful reaponse, thank you.

I am like you. I don't have close family. Suicide is considered a taboo and a sin in my culture. Did the cremation companies ask you about your parents and next of kin? I don't know how to avoid the requirement
They did. I told them straight up that I don't have anyone, except a few distant cousins with whom I haven't spoken to in years who live in different states. I don't even have phone numbers for them. They told me that someone needs to be notified of my death and to identify my body. I say just let them fingerprint me or take dental impressions. I gave them the name of a high school friend from nearly 40 years ago, with whom I have very little association anymore since he's married, has kids and grandkids, works a lot. I'm sure he'll be surprised when he is contacted. Not surprised that I ctb, but that I picked him to ID me. There was literally no one else I could choose, and they were insistent. I wonder what they would do if someone truly had absolutely no one? They'd take your money anyway. That's what they'd do. My cremation was just over $1000 and that's the absolute basics. No service, no embalming, no visitation, none of that. Just place me in the cardboard box and burn me up.
 
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FrozenMango

FrozenMango

Hello from the other side
Aug 16, 2022
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Thanks everyone. I decided against it. It is not worth the trouble
 

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