Poll For Fellow Queers

[Anonymoususer1234]

I know we get asked this a lot but I'm curious to see what the numbers look like.

 

[colorlesshue]

my parents would disown me if they knew i was a lesbian, i got dumped by someone i wanted to marry. i wish i was never attracted to anyone in the first place so i wouldn't get to experience loss.

 

[Sluggish_Slump]

As mentioned above I would choose asexuality any day of the week if it was possible to alter brain chemistry to that extent. If I un-queered myself I might as well turn into a run of the mill incel... Straight people don't have it any better.

 

[Anonymoususer1234]

my parents would disown me if they knew i was a lesbian, i got dumped by someone i wanted to marry. i wish i was never attracted to anyone in the first place so i wouldn't get to experience loss.

I understand where you're coming from but I don't get romantically attracted to anyone and I still experience loss (loss of friendship, family, pets).

People also do get disowned for being aro/ace.

Not being attracted to anyone has been incredibly isolating, in my experience. It has limited my ability to relate to and understand others. I always feel like there's something wrong with me.

 

[sad4dayz]

Nah, I love being gay
Don't like the judgment but love being with men.

 

[Celerity]

It's like a bad joke at this point, but being bi gives me the benefit of more possible partners. I "pass" very well as a straight woman, so I do not face harassment.

Years ago when I was religious and dealing with a lot of internalized homophobia, my answer would have been very different.

Now, I see no point in changing this. I only wish I found it easier to connect with both genders. I am friendly and easily find acquaintances. Getting beyond that point is where the difficulty lies.

 

[bleeding_heart_show]

I've decided to permanently abstain from romantic relationships, so it really doesn't affect my daily life. If I was going to have relationships I'd 100% want to be heterosexual though. It would eliminate a lot of doubt and fear from my mind.

 

[Scythe]

Bit complicated here, being trans is really annoying. If I can just be a cis man then yes of course. It's a no for being a cis woman, just not an identity I want for myself. As for sexuality, I like it complicated as it is right now, wouldn't want to be straight.

 

[TheShadowKing]

Although I love being Bi my internalized homophobia for myself I have because of my parents and me not "fitting in" cause it put a big strain on my mental health and things would be somewhat easier if I was "Normal"

 

[achb]

I can't imagine not being attracted to men, woman, and everyone else. I get so much enjoyment out of seeing attractive people. It's fun and is like seeing beautiful art wherever I go. I wouldn't trade that away just because some people think I'm going to hell for it. Though, the only reason I can really say that is because I'm fortunate enough to live somewhere accepting.