Physical Handlers and Spiritual one

[ivathantri]

Hello all, this is my first post here.

Has anybody dealt or is dealing with a "handler" Rather if you feel like it's spiritual is fine too. I was sent to the ER and that same day I had gotten a roommate and I can't help but feel like the decision wasn't fully mine during the time. He often just let himself in my room without warning or anything looking over my shoulder. We're both grown adults. He likes to ask me where I am going, and why. I'm a grown ass man, and I hate having to respond to him I just do so to try not to be an asshole. The more I look over the events that happened over the few weeks, if I hadn't told those ER folks I didn't have a roommate, they would've found me a "new home" in their words.

 

[Quietist]

You went to the ER and were given a roommate? You mean in the hospital room or for your home residence?

And by what authority? That's quite strange.

 

[ivathantri]

No, the ER didn't give me a roommate, I talked with him month before being sent. I lived alone up until that day. I was saying that if I had told him no a month ago I wouldn't have been able to leave that night. Also he wouldn't have a place to stay either. So I wanted to him. Looking back, I really had no choice to say no or not.

If I had told him no to not moving in, before all that: I would not have gone home the next few days and I would be seen as the "bad guy" because I turned him down and everybody we work with knows I live alone. Everybody at work would've shunned me even more than they already do.

He moved in the same day they sent me to the ER