Ty for your response, he took pictures of my license plate. What about that?
I don't want to get in any trouble @GoodPersonEffed Thats what I'm scared of
I hear and acknowledge your fear. I'm not in a place of soothing, though, but I want you to know that I'm not overlooking it. I'm in a place of power, and that's what I have to share. If this post comes across as tough, it's not directed at you but at him. It's empowerment I'm trying to share with you. I will not let him have power over me, too, and give him any access to fear from me. He doesn't warrant it. Bullies and scam artists don't. So that's where I'm coming from in this post. I'm not negating you, but his shit. That's all it is, just stinky shit. Here's some air freshener.
When in fear, it takes executive control. The advice I gave you was thorough and solid. It will help you with awareness and to have power in this. It will help you be in control. He fucked with you, but you don't have to keep letting him fuck with you, that gives him power when he doesn't have any, and that's what he wanted. Don't give it to him. Don't give him anything else. He took a picture, so what? Did you take pictures, too? Have you written notes to document? If he harasses you, document everything. He's trying to run a scam, you don't have to let him have what he has no right to, including your peace of mind. There will always be people who try to take what is rightfully others', but that doesn't mean you're obliged to reward them.
My advice and opinions: Get mad for a minute. Protect what is yours. Protect you. Don't let the anger take any more charge than the fear, but use it to recognize you have boundaries. Anger tells you when a boundary has been dishonored and attacked. You need to connect with your boundaries and honor them. They are your protection. That jerk is weak. He's a petty criminal and a bully. He will give up when he sees he can't bowl you over. He picked the wrong mark, he'll find others when he sees he can't get a payoff. Hold your ground, no matter how scared you get. The first time may be hard, because you're flexing muscles you haven't yet used. They'll get stronger. Build your awareness, fortify yourself with the advice I gave you, and show your fear (and your anger) you've got this. You have power.
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@Yomyom went through an N scam where they tried to use fear tactics. He didn't let them win. I suggest using the site search for his post(s) about it, or maybe he'll share a link here if so inclined.