donewithyourview
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- May 9, 2022
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Sometimes I wonder if I would have been better off having been raised in the East Asia and not brought here when I was a child. For people here, death is so rarely discussed, and almost always something taboo, something we have to avoid and deny for the pain to go away. I've been terrified of death and pain for so long, but I am tired of the shame and the confused, concerned, dangerous looks people give me when I bring up how much pain I'm in pretty much constantly.
I am so tired, mentally and physically, my body is failing on me, I've cut myself off from everyone that cares about me to save them the pain from being around me. My entire life has been full of nothing but back to back nonstop failures. I don't have a single good thing to say about myself, and it's all because I was born this way. Born ugly. Born different. Born mentally ill and neurodivergent. I have so many people I love with these traits but I just cannot cope with the fact that I am struggling. It hurts so much, and no one wants to hear it, so I hold it in until I snap. I can't hold down a normal job. I can't just be normal and try new things.
I am completely devoid of passion, life, and joy. My brain is simply incapable of feeling it, no drug on earth can reverse it. I'm too anxious. Assisted death or euthanasia should be available for everyone, free of charge, as long as they pass a mental evaluation stating that they are capable and mature enough to recognize their choice... I'm tired of being treated like I'm insane or childish for being so despondent everyday. Look at the world around us!! Especially over here in the US! I'm only 20 and the world is already falling apart, my friends are falling apart, everyone I know is doing very badly, we all have so much to worry about constantly. How am I abnormal? But my mind will always be fixated on the critics, on the people that call us weak, because I am just so tired of everything and trying to find the joy in things. Ive tried so many things.
So I dropped out of college. I got into a single college, out of dozens, somehow, after fucking it all up, and I still fucked it up anyway. Basically tossed my tuition into the trash. Spent all days and nights inside my house too afraid to go outside. Can never finish my shift at work, I'm on the verge of getting fired. Everyone knows I'm a wimp and a flake. Nervous and anxious constantly even when I'm safe. Everyone asks me if I'm ok until they start to realize that I'm just permanently like that, and then they just leave me alone because it becomes too much for them. I can't blame them, I objectively cannot blame them, and it's driving me nuts.
I feel so lost and afraid and alone constantly but I am too afraid of the unknown and of excruciating pain to die. I can't talk about it with anyone because they'll get concerned and stressed, and it's easier for me to just remove myself from my loved ones' lives than to bother them unnecessarily with problems they never consented to hearing about. I used to cry for weeks as a child because I was unable to comprehend nonexistence and death. God is not with me.
I want to kill myself to preserve the little scraps of what's left of my dignity and self-worth, like the Japanese samurais used to. That is something people in the West don't understand from people like me. There's something about inherently hating who you are from the beginning, wanting to kill that little child inside of you, wanting to smother his future into nothing. Sex does not help. Dating does not help. Drugs do not help. Medication does not help. Friends do not help. Family does not help. Travel? Music? Art? Work? Education? Exercise? None of it does a single thing for me, I have tried, I tried to cope for so, so long. For years, trying to find something, literally anything that would bring me stability and a moment of calm from the storm. But the only person that's left at the end of the day is myself. Curled up alone in bed, crying, lying there for hours staring at my ceiling doing absolutely nothing at all. I'm inherently broken. I'm a machine with defective parts. People like me I genuinely believe might benefit from simply closing their eyes and ceasing to exist, as I have thought every day of my life since age 14.
Looking back on my memories, they're all just scattered pieces of dull and upsetting events, and I feel like a coward for being so affected by them. This pain is unbearable. No one wants to hear me say any of these things. I don't care about myself or anyone else anymore. I'm lost in my thoughts. My loved ones will eventually die, my pets will die, we will all continue to suffer and be exploited by forces beyond our comprehension until the day we physically can't sell our labor anymore. I'm despondent. I've lost myself. I have no identity, sense of self, I just don't want to hurt anymore. But my attachments are too strong. I wish I'd been raised in the East so Buddhism would feel more natural to me, and maybe I could finally let go and let it happen.
I am so tired, mentally and physically, my body is failing on me, I've cut myself off from everyone that cares about me to save them the pain from being around me. My entire life has been full of nothing but back to back nonstop failures. I don't have a single good thing to say about myself, and it's all because I was born this way. Born ugly. Born different. Born mentally ill and neurodivergent. I have so many people I love with these traits but I just cannot cope with the fact that I am struggling. It hurts so much, and no one wants to hear it, so I hold it in until I snap. I can't hold down a normal job. I can't just be normal and try new things.
I am completely devoid of passion, life, and joy. My brain is simply incapable of feeling it, no drug on earth can reverse it. I'm too anxious. Assisted death or euthanasia should be available for everyone, free of charge, as long as they pass a mental evaluation stating that they are capable and mature enough to recognize their choice... I'm tired of being treated like I'm insane or childish for being so despondent everyday. Look at the world around us!! Especially over here in the US! I'm only 20 and the world is already falling apart, my friends are falling apart, everyone I know is doing very badly, we all have so much to worry about constantly. How am I abnormal? But my mind will always be fixated on the critics, on the people that call us weak, because I am just so tired of everything and trying to find the joy in things. Ive tried so many things.
So I dropped out of college. I got into a single college, out of dozens, somehow, after fucking it all up, and I still fucked it up anyway. Basically tossed my tuition into the trash. Spent all days and nights inside my house too afraid to go outside. Can never finish my shift at work, I'm on the verge of getting fired. Everyone knows I'm a wimp and a flake. Nervous and anxious constantly even when I'm safe. Everyone asks me if I'm ok until they start to realize that I'm just permanently like that, and then they just leave me alone because it becomes too much for them. I can't blame them, I objectively cannot blame them, and it's driving me nuts.
I feel so lost and afraid and alone constantly but I am too afraid of the unknown and of excruciating pain to die. I can't talk about it with anyone because they'll get concerned and stressed, and it's easier for me to just remove myself from my loved ones' lives than to bother them unnecessarily with problems they never consented to hearing about. I used to cry for weeks as a child because I was unable to comprehend nonexistence and death. God is not with me.
I want to kill myself to preserve the little scraps of what's left of my dignity and self-worth, like the Japanese samurais used to. That is something people in the West don't understand from people like me. There's something about inherently hating who you are from the beginning, wanting to kill that little child inside of you, wanting to smother his future into nothing. Sex does not help. Dating does not help. Drugs do not help. Medication does not help. Friends do not help. Family does not help. Travel? Music? Art? Work? Education? Exercise? None of it does a single thing for me, I have tried, I tried to cope for so, so long. For years, trying to find something, literally anything that would bring me stability and a moment of calm from the storm. But the only person that's left at the end of the day is myself. Curled up alone in bed, crying, lying there for hours staring at my ceiling doing absolutely nothing at all. I'm inherently broken. I'm a machine with defective parts. People like me I genuinely believe might benefit from simply closing their eyes and ceasing to exist, as I have thought every day of my life since age 14.
Looking back on my memories, they're all just scattered pieces of dull and upsetting events, and I feel like a coward for being so affected by them. This pain is unbearable. No one wants to hear me say any of these things. I don't care about myself or anyone else anymore. I'm lost in my thoughts. My loved ones will eventually die, my pets will die, we will all continue to suffer and be exploited by forces beyond our comprehension until the day we physically can't sell our labor anymore. I'm despondent. I've lost myself. I have no identity, sense of self, I just don't want to hurt anymore. But my attachments are too strong. I wish I'd been raised in the East so Buddhism would feel more natural to me, and maybe I could finally let go and let it happen.
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