Paranoid someone found you here??

[DrownedOctopus]

Is anyone else incredibly paranoid that someone you know somehow found you on this site?
A couple days ago, a friend of mine posted on fb my profile picture with a caption of one of my statuses. I'm not sure she knows it's me, or if she even found it from here, but it makes me incredibly paranoid now. I have a hard time believing it's just a coincidence...

 

[lemmeeleev]

Wait, your friend was on SS? They would have to visit this website to see your profile picture and status.

 

[DrownedOctopus]

Wait, your friend was on SS? They would have to visit this website to see your profile picture and status.

Well with that being said, then it more than definitely was not a coincidence. It's believable she would visit this site, but now I'm even more paranoid she's going to figure out it's me.

 

[lemmeeleev]

If she does know, what is she going to do? Tell somebody? If she does, you know she was on here too. If she was on here, she probably doesn't want anyone to know that she was too.

 

[Davy]

You should message her and ask her if she's okay, she could be going through the same thing and reaching out to you.
Hopefully you can support each other!

 

[DrownedOctopus]

If she does know, what is she going to do? Tell somebody? If she does, you know she was on here too. If she was on here, she probably doesn't want anyone to know that she was too.

You're right. Completely. It just makes me nervous. She might absentmindedly mention it to others because she talks openly about everything in her life. Her fb page looks close to this site honestly. A little less suicidal, but pretty close.

You should message her and ask her if she's okay, she could be going through the same thing and reaching out to you.
Hopefully you can support each other!

That seems like the logical explanation. Thank you for mentioning this

 

[seekingoblivion]

Is anyone else incredibly paranoid that someone you know somehow found you on this site?
A couple days ago, a friend of mine posted on fb my profile picture with a caption of one of my statuses. I'm not sure she knows it's me, or if she even found it from here, but it makes me incredibly paranoid now. I have a hard time believing it's just a coincidence...

I'm paranoid someone I know online found me here. It's completely baseless though. It's just my head. If I saw what you saw though I'd be going crazy.

 

[CptBBQ]

Yeah I use pretty much my main online name here haha.
Some people from old communities I was in may recognize me.

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

Nah, I don't know anyone IRL and wouldn't care even if I did.

 

[Wolfjob_dayjob]

I know my sysadmins know or could know if a pattern made them care. I can't go to jail for the big sad here :/

Sounds concerning- about your friend.