Now_And_Then
If I am no good , then let me out
- Jun 30, 2019
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I really want some opinions on this so apologise if is a tad long . Me and my sister have had no beef at all . I really do not get her . I live in London and know a American lady who has Huntingsons disease and we would regularly send gifts to each other . We also have the same birth day . I only spoke to her through the Line app as I do not have face book as I have been banned from making a account ( I was not a troll but posted a few protest videos )
The lady friend ( Tammy ) regularly forgets things because of her disease and has forgotten to come on the Line app for a few months . I had bought some gifts for her and her kids , but have only just been ready to send them because of the Covid 19 situation . As I can not get her through the Line app , a few weeks ago , I kindly asked my sister ( who has her as a friend on face book ) to drop Tammy a quick message to let her know I am ready to send the gifts ( so she knows to be in to receive them ) . Just a simple message
My sister's response : " No I am not doing it , you message her your self "
I told her that I have no other way of contacting her and that she is my only hope of letting Tammy know . She kept refusing and said it is because I haven't asked how she is for a long time . ( she has not asked me how I am either recently ) but that is not the point , why bring Tammy in to it ?
I asked her again yester day and she blew off again telling me to message her my self . That she does not want to and it is her perogative . I tried to reason with her for about two hours , but to no avail . After I told her it seemed spite ful , my sister eventually did send Tammy a message and then told me in no way will she ever do it again and thanked me for forcing her to do it . Huh ?
I called her and apologised if I made her feel bad and then she told me she has been to counciling because of her step father . I told her I felt for her and I made a little laugh about the whole argument earlier because it was stupid . She then snapped , shouting at me " Are you laughing at me " !!??? and before I could explain that I was not laughing at her , she snapped " I am now going to un-friend Tammy " !! and put the phone down
My sister has been extremely sensitive in the past too . You literally have to walk on egg shells to not upset her
I managed to talk her round , but this morning discovered she has blocked me on both Twitter and What's app . And has most probably un-friended Tammy
Is this normal ? What exactly did I do wrong ? I was calm the whole time , apart from when I said it felt a little spite ful of her
The lady friend ( Tammy ) regularly forgets things because of her disease and has forgotten to come on the Line app for a few months . I had bought some gifts for her and her kids , but have only just been ready to send them because of the Covid 19 situation . As I can not get her through the Line app , a few weeks ago , I kindly asked my sister ( who has her as a friend on face book ) to drop Tammy a quick message to let her know I am ready to send the gifts ( so she knows to be in to receive them ) . Just a simple message
My sister's response : " No I am not doing it , you message her your self "
I told her that I have no other way of contacting her and that she is my only hope of letting Tammy know . She kept refusing and said it is because I haven't asked how she is for a long time . ( she has not asked me how I am either recently ) but that is not the point , why bring Tammy in to it ?
I asked her again yester day and she blew off again telling me to message her my self . That she does not want to and it is her perogative . I tried to reason with her for about two hours , but to no avail . After I told her it seemed spite ful , my sister eventually did send Tammy a message and then told me in no way will she ever do it again and thanked me for forcing her to do it . Huh ?
I called her and apologised if I made her feel bad and then she told me she has been to counciling because of her step father . I told her I felt for her and I made a little laugh about the whole argument earlier because it was stupid . She then snapped , shouting at me " Are you laughing at me " !!??? and before I could explain that I was not laughing at her , she snapped " I am now going to un-friend Tammy " !! and put the phone down
My sister has been extremely sensitive in the past too . You literally have to walk on egg shells to not upset her
I managed to talk her round , but this morning discovered she has blocked me on both Twitter and What's app . And has most probably un-friended Tammy
Is this normal ? What exactly did I do wrong ? I was calm the whole time , apart from when I said it felt a little spite ful of her
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