MeltingHeart
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- Sep 9, 2019
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I appreciate this description of what it is to suffer, by renown doctor, social worker and phyician Cicely Saunders noted for being the founder of Hospice care.
Whilt she may be referring to the suffering she encountered whilst working in the field of palliative care, I think the sentiments expressed could be applied to those enduring suffering in other circumstances:
"Suffering is a multiheaded beast. So what is suffering? Well, suffering, there's a lot of different ways to define it. Cicely Saunders, the grandmother of hospice work, she called it "total pain." That [it has] a physical component, a psychological and emotional component, a spiritual component. It's a multiheaded entity. One might say it affects how you see yourself. It affects your identity. I've come to understand suffering as a wedge — a gap that opens up in you. The gap between the world you have and the world you want. So, it gets at your desire, it gets at your longing, it gets at what you're lacking."
Just highlighted some bits I relate to. I think it interesting as it understands it is not only a physical aspect (or maybe none at all) or pain that can cause suffering, nor even simply having a mental health issue, but rather it is a composite of many different negative factors; feelings, experiences and situtaions that collide and result in the totality of feeling suffering. This is why the issues surrounding suicide are so complex and multifarious, there are so many factors to consider-its not always one single & clear reason why-and as such not always irrational and/or an impulsive thought stemming from an unsound mind!...there is so much more to it than that.
Whilt she may be referring to the suffering she encountered whilst working in the field of palliative care, I think the sentiments expressed could be applied to those enduring suffering in other circumstances:
"Suffering is a multiheaded beast. So what is suffering? Well, suffering, there's a lot of different ways to define it. Cicely Saunders, the grandmother of hospice work, she called it "total pain." That [it has] a physical component, a psychological and emotional component, a spiritual component. It's a multiheaded entity. One might say it affects how you see yourself. It affects your identity. I've come to understand suffering as a wedge — a gap that opens up in you. The gap between the world you have and the world you want. So, it gets at your desire, it gets at your longing, it gets at what you're lacking."
Just highlighted some bits I relate to. I think it interesting as it understands it is not only a physical aspect (or maybe none at all) or pain that can cause suffering, nor even simply having a mental health issue, but rather it is a composite of many different negative factors; feelings, experiences and situtaions that collide and result in the totality of feeling suffering. This is why the issues surrounding suicide are so complex and multifarious, there are so many factors to consider-its not always one single & clear reason why-and as such not always irrational and/or an impulsive thought stemming from an unsound mind!...there is so much more to it than that.
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