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Dosentmatter903

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May 5, 2023
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So while making some preparation plans I came across a question...how can I stay as lowkey as possible? So I figured if my plan is to take SN maybee in a hotel room where I can have privacy and won't get found till checkout time, what are the chances of it making the news? And if it does should I go out of state, away from my family but still close enough to where the body can be identified...how far would I have to go to not really be an issue close to home?
 
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i don’t know who i am
May 8, 2023
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im also worried about this - suicides in my city are usually reported on since they don't happen very often.
 
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Jun 7, 2023
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it depends how big your city is I would guess- I never see suicides reported on here unless they are particularly public or violent.
im also worried about this - suicides in my city are usually reported on since they don't happen very often.
may I ask what worries you about being reported on in the news?
 
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i don’t know who i am
May 8, 2023
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it depends how big your city is I would guess- I never see suicides reported on here unless they are particularly public or violent.

may I ask what worries you about being reported on in the news?
honestly i never know how to answer these sorts of questions. surely it wouldn't matter after we die - but i just have some weird problem with people acknowledging that i exist. i just don't want all that attention on me.

although, i feel like it may not be something my family would want either.
 
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My exhaustion knows no end
Feb 13, 2023
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I plan to jump off of a semi popular cliff.. It's definitely something that will make local news. Also something I don't want.

Maybe I can write a letter asking for some sort of privacy, I guess I will be dead though so I don't worry about it too much. Just something I'd rather not happen.

I think more private suicides aren't typically reported. Public ones tend to make news, maybe even small town ones. I don't know what the best advice would be but regardless I wish you the best in your journey.
 
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honestly i never know how to answer these sorts of questions. surely it wouldn't matter after we die - but i just have some weird problem with people acknowledging that i exist. i just don't want all that attention on me.

although, i feel like it may not be something my family would want either.
that's fair enough. I want to be swallowed back into nothingness- there's a cheapening to that if it makes some headline. so I think I kinda get it. but it's not something that would personally bother me.
 
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that's fair enough. I want to be swallowed back into nothingness- there's a cheapening to that if it makes some headline. so I think I kinda get it. but it's not something that would personally bother me.
i can understand why it wouldn't bother some people - the idea bothers me in life, but ultimately won't matter in the end. im not sure, i just think it's very weird and surreal to imagine that my face may be plastered all over shitty tabloids.
 
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