BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Behind the guilt was compassion
Jan 26, 2021
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Going to stop my daily cooming since my penis is getting bent out of shape and is all inflamed and shit (daily death grips, no lube from age 12). Having this thread for others that also want to do this and for my/our accountability.

The rules are: no porn, only quick and gentle cummies when super horny or for general maintenance.

Expected effects are: increased penile health, sleep problems, public erections, fear, anxiety, getting extremely pumped up over the thought of ctb (has happened to me before when doing this, whilst trying to sleep I kept thinking (read: yelling) "OH FUCK YES I AM GOING TO KILL MYSELF" in my head over and over, temporarily removing my anticipatory anhedonia), infections, ED and committing to suicide.



We'll/I'll report in here daily or something.

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damn good luck king
 
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HopelessFight

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I wouldn't last 24 hours. In fact, I don't see why I would want to suppress my sexuality.

Good luck.
 
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Symbiote

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So you're gonna be like a slug and leave a slimy trail of semen leakage due to non-fapping?
 
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Dr Iron Arc

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Nofap is a bad idea and there's no proof it really works though it seems you're just taking a break and lowering the amount you do fap which is actually pretty reasonable and not quite the same thing. If you want to suppress a porn addiction, one thing that helps is forcing yourself to use your imagination to jack off instead.

You can also start with erotic literature to ease into flexing your imagination muscles more. Maybe even write some of your own to keep for yourself. Think really hard about impressing that pretty girl from the grocery store or someone who showed a lot of skin at an anime convention.

Best of luck to you though, me I'll keep fapping exactly once a day and only to flush out prostate cancer.
 
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I think stopping for a few weeks is useful, but I see no use to go further, except for spiritual reasons.
 
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BeansOfRequirement

Behind the guilt was compassion
Jan 26, 2021
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I think stopping for a few weeks is useful, but I see no use to go further, except for spiritual reasons.
My dick is going to break tho, I'll never have sex since I'm not normie enough but I don't want to have pain and have to get surgeries on my weenus peenus.
 
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I remember one time when I went 96 days before relapsing. I didn't feel too different, if anything... it kinda made me want to fuck anything that moves (overexaggeration on that part), as well as experience plenty of wet dreams, but it dies down after a while. Anyway, the only thing I got out of this was that I felt accomplished when I made it that long. The hardest period is the first month, and overtime, it gets a little easier. Until you hit a flatline, but that'll also go away. Once you get past that, you'll be breezing through perhaps a year or longer until you become a fapstronaut.

Only thing I'll say is don't do it for the nodap superpowers. And don't do it to get laid. Do it for you, to accomplish something.
 
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BeansOfRequirement

Behind the guilt was compassion
Jan 26, 2021
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I remember one time when I went 96 days before relapsing. I didn't feel too different, if anything... it kinda made me want to fuck anything that moves (overexaggeration on that part), as well as experience plenty of wet dreams, but it dies down after a while. Anyway, the only thing I got out of this was that I felt accomplished when I made it that long. The hardest period is the first month, and overtime, it gets a little easier. Until you hit a flatline, but that'll also go away. Once you get past that, you'll be breezing through perhaps a year or longer until you become a fapstronaut.

Only thing I'll say is don't do it for the nodap superpowers. And don't do it to get laid. Do it for you, to accomplish something.
I'm not doing nofap, I'm just trying to not destroy my penis further. Used the term nofap since the biggest part of this is not using porn, since that will reduce the masturbation frequency and damage inflicted to my penis per session. I'm hoping that my penis will straighten out but I don't think that can happen without surgery or those gel injections, tbh. I haven't felt any big or frequent pain yet and since I'll never get a gf I just want to be able to jack off and not have to go get surgery on my shrimp dick.
 
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I'm not doing nofap, I'm just trying to not destroy my penis further. Used the term nofap since the biggest part of this is not using porn, since that will reduce the masturbation frequency and damage inflicted to my penis per session. I'm hoping that my penis will straighten out but I don't think that can happen without surgery or those gel injections, tbh. I haven't felt any big or frequent pain yet and since I'll never get a gf I just want to be able to jack off and not have to go get surgery on my shrimp dick.
Hmm... fair enough... moderation is key. Good luck!
 
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RainAndSadness

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Suppression of sexuality isn't healthy. If you want to reduce the amount of masturbation with porn you simply need to occupy yourself. Doing things, being busy, keeping your mind occupied - that's gonna automatically reduce the amount of fapping. Doing "no-fap" challenges isn't really achieving much. You need to change your life style.
 
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Behind the guilt was compassion
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Suppression of sexuality isn't healthy. If you want to reduce the amount of masturbation with porn you simply need to occupy yourself. Doing things, being busy, keeping your mind occupied - that's gonna automatically reduce the amount of fapping. Doing "no-fap" challenges isn't really achieving much. You need to change your life style.
I'm staying as busy as I can as a friendless NEET, this forum helps a lot with having something to do. It's not a challenge, this is a lifestyle change, I just used the term nofap since that's what came to mind. As stated, I will still ejaculate and masturbate, just not to porn and not every day. My penis is completely wrecked. :eh:
 
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I'm staying as busy as I can as a friendless NEET, this forum helps a lot with having something to do. It's not a challenge, this is a lifestyle change, I just used the term nofap since that's what came to mind. As stated, I will still ejaculate and masturbate, just not to porn and not every day. My penis is completely wrecked. :eh:

As someone who practiced gooning in the past, I know what you mean. I hope you'll find a way to tone down on your masturbation habits. Good luck!
 
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Mentalmick

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Just use your other hand and it'll eventually bend back into shape. I don't know how you would stop the friction damage though. Wear a condom maybe?
 
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Jul 4, 2020
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Luckily I'm very picky when it comes to choosing the right nsfw material so, before I even find the right material, I get bored and decide to play some CoD Cold War Zombies instead : P

There's noting more distracting than going around with M60 and maybe rage quit after you get stuck in a wall or a car..
(insert "Step Sis, help me, I'm stuck" meme here)
 
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Behind the guilt was compassion
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Just use your other hand and it'll eventually bend back into shape. I don't know how you would stop the friction damage though. Wear a condom maybe?
Bent upwards, peynories or whatever. No real problems masturbating but I want to at least avoid causing even more dmg.
 
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Bent upwards, peynories or whatever. No real problems masturbating but I want to at least avoid causing even more dmg.
That another new word I've learned. Didn't know that was a thing. Mine is twisted to one side. We should start a secret society, The Bell Benders.
 
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no fap works, but only because i think your more turned on all the time so you dick looks bigger

try to reduce your frequency first otherwise you will fail and become disillusioned. miss a day then miss two days. relapsing here and there is expected it will take a while to retrain your mind but it can be done
 
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BeansOfRequirement

Behind the guilt was compassion
Jan 26, 2021
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no fap works, but only because i think your more turned on all the time so you dick looks bigger

try to reduce your frequency first otherwise you will fail and become disillusioned. miss a day then miss two days. relapsing here and there is expected it will take a while to retrain your mind but it can be done
Damn, people really only read the titles and then postmaxx.
 
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Suppression of sexuality isn't healthy. If you want to reduce the amount of masturbation with porn you simply need to occupy yourself. Doing things, being busy, keeping your mind occupied - that's gonna automatically reduce the amount of fapping. Doing "no-fap" challenges isn't really achieving much. You need to change your life style.
You're definitely right. Distractions and hobbies are key. It's pretty much how I went 3 months. That said, it kinda sorta is an achievement though pointless, only reason I quit was the sudden hit of depression, then I lost motivation.
 
UterEntonaur

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We'll/I'll report in here daily or something.
How are things going so far with this? If you go back to daily cooming and your worried about the death-grip thing or rubbing yourself raw, get a masturbator sleeve and some cheap lube, it'd highly recommend them.

I've been using the TENGA Regular for years and it's great. It's a hard-shell outside with soft inside, so you can death-grip the case all you want, without worrying about hurting yourself or killing your sensitivity. Just a few drops of cheap water-based lube, stick a finger in and spread the lube around, then it's ready to go. Washing is easy too (gently pull it out of the case), and it doesn't need powdering like other products, so it's easy to keep clean. Just make sure you clean it after every use.... don't be dat guy who ends up growing coom-mushrooms in it :wink:


....one thing that helps is forcing yourself to use your imagination to jack off instead.
This is so difficult for some of us. If I fancy someone at the time then I can fantasise about them, but otherwise, thinking up a random scenario with a random person (that is "enough" to get me turned on) is very challenging. I'm very visualar which is why porn was always my go-to.
 
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Behind the guilt was compassion
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How are things going so far with this? If you go back to daily cooming and your worried about the death-grip thing or rubbing yourself raw, get a masturbator sleeve and some cheap lube, it'd highly recommend them.

I've been using the TENGA Regular for years and it's great. It's a hard-shell outside with soft inside, so you can death-grip the case all you want, without worrying about hurting yourself or killing your sensitivity. Just a few drops of cheap water-based lube, stick a finger in and spread the lube around, then it's ready to go. Washing is easy too (gently pull it out of the case), and it doesn't need powdering like other products, so it's easy to keep clean. Just make sure you clean it after every use.... don't be dat guy who ends up growing coom-mushrooms in it :wink:




This is so difficult for some of us. If I fancy someone at the time then I can fantasise about them, but otherwise, thinking up a random scenario with a random person (that is "enough" to get me turned on) is very challenging. I'm very visualar which is why porn was always my go-to.
Don't want to order sex toys since I live with parents haha, might buy something in a store later or something. Thanks for the tips.

I had to abandon the mission since the sexual needs amplify the emotional needs and the cocktail is unbearable, I was close to attempting partial for the first time after 2 1/2 days of not ejaculating. I'm trying to jack off with as little damage to me penis as possible but my dick is already destroyed, sensitivity is shit, I ejaculate but don't orgasm, plus the bending which might make penetration impossible unless partially or using angles somehow. Don't need penetration for anything, tho.

I guess the underlying reason for the project was coming from me not yet accepting my situation due to my hardened ego and genetic wiring + being attractive in the past. I'm not feeling pain from masturbating, so there really is no problem, I'm never going to have a gf. Even if I got one, which will not happen, she'd be fine with getting fingered/toyed/eaten out etc until the surgery or whatever remedy is done unless she is incompatible with me (should not be my gf).

I am coming to terms with the fact that I will be an incel NEET until I kill myself. I am feeling more peaceful now, it was a good experience overall. I am able to cope with this whole thing better now.
 
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Don't want to order sex toys since I live with parents haha, might buy something in a store later or something.
You could probably DIY something similar using a Pringle can or something.
 
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salt shaker, rule breaker
Jan 29, 2021
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Bought me a TENGA, gonna coom inside it. Great thread, would read again.
 
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You could probably DIY something similar using a Pringle can or something.
For my size I think a carbon nanotube would be a better fit.
 
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