Deleted member 19654
Working towards recovery.
- Jul 9, 2020
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I hate this whole nice guy attitude/mentality.
A little backstory: I was friends with this guy and from the very beginning I made it clear that I wasn't interested in dating anyone and I haven't in a while. He told me he understood and we were just friends. He was someone I could talk to and who I thought understood me. One time we were hanging out together and I was upset because of some stuff going on in my life. I opened up about some of my problems only for him to suddenly tell me I'm beautiful and to try and fucking kiss me. Turns out he was only really interested in trying to get with me the entire time.
After I reject him, he goes on to complain about how he's been such a good friend to me this whole time and I repay him by turning him down. Just because he let me cry on his shoulder, it doesn't mean I need to pay him back by agreeing to a relationship/sex when I'm not attracted to him. Then he goes on the stereotypical spiel about how 'girls always ignore the nice guys and instead prefer the douchebags'. According to him, we were compatible and would have made a great couple to which I most certainly disagree. I ended our friendship and never spoke to him again. I felt so betrayed.
Fast forward to today. I receive a message asking me how I was and what I'm up to this weekend. I choose to ignore him and after a few hours he replies with all these nasty messages calling me all sorts of names. I'm annoyed all over again and now I'm in a stinking bad mood. I certainly dodged one hell of a bullet.
A little backstory: I was friends with this guy and from the very beginning I made it clear that I wasn't interested in dating anyone and I haven't in a while. He told me he understood and we were just friends. He was someone I could talk to and who I thought understood me. One time we were hanging out together and I was upset because of some stuff going on in my life. I opened up about some of my problems only for him to suddenly tell me I'm beautiful and to try and fucking kiss me. Turns out he was only really interested in trying to get with me the entire time.
After I reject him, he goes on to complain about how he's been such a good friend to me this whole time and I repay him by turning him down. Just because he let me cry on his shoulder, it doesn't mean I need to pay him back by agreeing to a relationship/sex when I'm not attracted to him. Then he goes on the stereotypical spiel about how 'girls always ignore the nice guys and instead prefer the douchebags'. According to him, we were compatible and would have made a great couple to which I most certainly disagree. I ended our friendship and never spoke to him again. I felt so betrayed.
Fast forward to today. I receive a message asking me how I was and what I'm up to this weekend. I choose to ignore him and after a few hours he replies with all these nasty messages calling me all sorts of names. I'm annoyed all over again and now I'm in a stinking bad mood. I certainly dodged one hell of a bullet.