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Feb 11, 2026
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Hi, I've only been on the forum for a few days, said very little so far, basically lurking, reading a lot of the other posts, mostly vent posts, its nice to not feel so alone with my thoughts.
But I feel awkward to say anything even though I find many of the posts comforting, with at least one being so much so that its what inspired me to feel comfortable making an account in the first place.
Even now I feel kinda nervous and like I'm overthinking it which is why I'm posting this as off-topic.
The only forums I've used before were for games and some anime/manga stuff so I didn't think so heavily about it.
Are there any suggestions or things I should read that would help become more comfortable with talking both making my own posts and to other users here besides just familiarizing myself with the rules/forum guidelines?
 
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