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SirChuxAlot
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- Jan 16, 2019
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Greetings everyone,
I am new here and hoping to maybe make some connections with other people such as myself who suffer from major depressive disorder. I was diagnosed with it about 1 year and a half ago and was advised to continue therapy but never did, primarily because I had lost health insurance as soon as I left my job.
As of late I have been thinking about suicide quite frequently more then usual and while I try ways of "thinking positive" and turning my attention to something else, it never seems to work and for only so long even if it does. I will try to keep this short but while I am far from going through the worst, I have been through alot that I believe has affected me over the years. I was bullied from middle school to the beginning of high school over my weight issue (I was at 400LBS but I have since then lost all that weight and kept it off for years and stay at about 150-160), exposed to a drug life thanks to my mother and sister, lost my father at 16 on Christmas Day having me to fend for myself since then and was diagnosed around that same time with Ulcerative Colitis which has since then progressed and developed into Severe Pancolitis, of course there is more there but I think these are some main key points that have affected me throughout the years.
I notice at times I get angry over the smallest things and not quite sure why but even the slightest thing can make me go from an okay mood to immediately heated, wish I knew why. I know I can hold grudges for very long without ever letting them go, like my one ex boss who use to be a friend (or so I thought) and ended up ripping me over a property I had invested into and an ex GF I once invested all my time into to help only to be used after 4 years in over her heroin usage. At the same time I hold shame for not being able to get into the Army (primary reason I lost weight) thanks to my Colitis which has long since affected me from an early age and has only worsened with time along with being 30 and no kids and no spouse or S/O, on that note, being alone doesn't bother me and to be frank, anytime I attempted a relationship, I always preferred to be alone.
There is more but I really don't want to waste anyone's time. I will be straight up and admit I have tried getting advice elsewhere such as Reddit and other forums to no avail and all I ever get is, "Things will get better", when?
I can't say I have the worst of life but I am constantly confused on what I want to do as a career with only a few things I can realistically do that doesn't require an advanced education, constantly stressed and as I mentioned before, debating if maybe suicide is a realistic option, especially since knowing my Pancolitis has no cure and medicine is scarce when it comes to what actually helps control the issue but knowing death is a cure doesn't help.
I guess what I am seeking here is maybe some advice or maybe if I should once again resume therapy(?)
Thanks everyone
I am new here and hoping to maybe make some connections with other people such as myself who suffer from major depressive disorder. I was diagnosed with it about 1 year and a half ago and was advised to continue therapy but never did, primarily because I had lost health insurance as soon as I left my job.
As of late I have been thinking about suicide quite frequently more then usual and while I try ways of "thinking positive" and turning my attention to something else, it never seems to work and for only so long even if it does. I will try to keep this short but while I am far from going through the worst, I have been through alot that I believe has affected me over the years. I was bullied from middle school to the beginning of high school over my weight issue (I was at 400LBS but I have since then lost all that weight and kept it off for years and stay at about 150-160), exposed to a drug life thanks to my mother and sister, lost my father at 16 on Christmas Day having me to fend for myself since then and was diagnosed around that same time with Ulcerative Colitis which has since then progressed and developed into Severe Pancolitis, of course there is more there but I think these are some main key points that have affected me throughout the years.
I notice at times I get angry over the smallest things and not quite sure why but even the slightest thing can make me go from an okay mood to immediately heated, wish I knew why. I know I can hold grudges for very long without ever letting them go, like my one ex boss who use to be a friend (or so I thought) and ended up ripping me over a property I had invested into and an ex GF I once invested all my time into to help only to be used after 4 years in over her heroin usage. At the same time I hold shame for not being able to get into the Army (primary reason I lost weight) thanks to my Colitis which has long since affected me from an early age and has only worsened with time along with being 30 and no kids and no spouse or S/O, on that note, being alone doesn't bother me and to be frank, anytime I attempted a relationship, I always preferred to be alone.
There is more but I really don't want to waste anyone's time. I will be straight up and admit I have tried getting advice elsewhere such as Reddit and other forums to no avail and all I ever get is, "Things will get better", when?
I can't say I have the worst of life but I am constantly confused on what I want to do as a career with only a few things I can realistically do that doesn't require an advanced education, constantly stressed and as I mentioned before, debating if maybe suicide is a realistic option, especially since knowing my Pancolitis has no cure and medicine is scarce when it comes to what actually helps control the issue but knowing death is a cure doesn't help.
I guess what I am seeking here is maybe some advice or maybe if I should once again resume therapy(?)
Thanks everyone