I'm 40, my wife is 36. We've been together for 18 years. We have 3 kids together. I love her, she hates me. Yet she just continues on like that's normal. I'm not rich btw, so she's not staying for that. What is the point I'd she can't stand me?
My wife and son went camping again for 3 days, as they do very often during this time of year. Its their "thing" as always I stay home with my dogs, great cuz it gives me time to drink alot!

I often get vibes that my wife would be happier if it was just her and my son here. BTW hes 22 and doesn't work or anything, just keeps in his room when im here, comes out when im at work, so makes me wonder about alot. But hey, I do try to get him to get a job so maybe that's why he hides! This hasn't really bothered me as I do enjoy alone time more than most, but definitely if its of concern to you, communicate with your wife. Find out what's going on with her. Don't just let it go, or make assumptions. Alot changes after having kids, as you know, and the best thing to do is to work on it now, otherwise it'll only get worse. Be open and honest and ask the same of her, it may just be misunderstanding, or something more, but if your marriage is important to you, you gotta work at it. Hopefully she feels the same..