Hey hun..sorry to hear that she could b so cold n insensitive..I understand sometimes it's hard for ppl to empathize, esp when they r going thru their own personal struggles..
BUT, anyone close to me, who would turn me away n minimize my pain, when I'm at my lowest, would def get CUT...
Not that I wanna just cut ppl off for not understanding me, but I personally give too much of myself so to have anyone close to me who doesn't care about me in a "911" state of emergency, can kick rocks....
If, as my mate, u can't be there for me n help "lift me up" or even empathize with me, idk...it's almost like ur passively kicking me when I'm already down..Bye, bye...