My ex partners friend just destroyed my N....

[AnxietyLion]

My ex partners friend destroyed my N...she just told me...I think I'm going to have a breakdown. She went to the states to sort out things for her dads funeral and I ordered it there because I thought it had more chance or arriving...it did arrive. But now it's fucking gone. Because her friend opened it and poured charcoal in it. I'm so not okay right now. I worked my ass off to be able to afford it.

 

[Girobatol]

This is a very sad story. He should pay for it. And her too. You gave her the money.

 

[MeltingHeart]

My ex partners friend destroyed my N...she just told me...I think I'm going to have a breakdown. She went to the states to sort out things for her dads funeral and I ordered it there because I thought it had more chance or arriving...it did arrive. But now it's fucking gone. Because her friend opened it and poured charcoal in it. I'm so not okay right now. I worked my ass off to be able to afford it.

oh nooooo :( i know the feeling (ish) but didnt even spend so much-im so sorry! why she pour charcoal on it & not just tip away? bit weird

 

[TAW122]

Ugh that really sucks and I'm sorry to hear about your plight. Yes, I would agree that since you paid for it with your own money, they should reimburse you with the cost of the N. However, the only caveat is that since N is illegal it would be hard to do so without running the risk of breaking the law and getting into legal trouble. Believe me, I don't agree with the laws either, but it's just something to be aware of if you choose to get any kind of recourse in the situation.

 

[AnxietyLion]

This is a very sad story. He should pay for it. And her too. You gave her the money.

She said they will be...but I'll believe it when I see it. Either way even if they do knowing my luck the next time it won't arrive. Thank you though.

oh nooooo :( i know the feeling (ish) but didnt even spend so much-im so sorry! why she pour charcoal on it & not just tip away? bit weird

I'm not sure why he did. He does security(but is ex military) and I think he found the bottle and decided to fuck with it so it would be unusable. I'm taking what she says with a pinch of salt though. She is my ex for a reason. I can confirm the N did arrive as I saw it on video etc. But as to it's whereabouts now either way I'm fucked.

Ugh that really sucks and I'm sorry to hear about your plight. Yes, I would agree that since you paid for it with your own money, they should reimburse you with the cost of the N. However, the only caveat is that since N is illegal it would be hard to do so without running the risk of breaking the law and getting into legal trouble. Believe me, I don't agree with the laws either, but it's just something to be aware of if you choose to get any kind of recourse in the situation.

Thank you I agree. As for breaking the law don't worry. Legality does not equate to morality and I would gladly go to prison for that cause. Hopefully they will pay me back.

 

[Wayfaerer]

Thank you I agree. As for breaking the law don't worry. Legality does not equate to morality and I would gladly go to prison for that cause. Hopefully they will pay me back.

Prison if a very hard place and if you're suicidal on top of that then it's going to be even harder.