My bf wants to kill himself

[losergirl111]

My bf wants to kill himself, it hurts so bad, really fucking bad.
I don't wanna make this about myself as he's the one suffering but he's the only reason I'm alive, he's the only reason I'm pushing to live. If it wasn't for him I would've hung myself a long time ago. I already lost a friend to suicide, I can't lose the love of my life aswell. I wish people treated him better. I wish his life was better. I wish the people around him were better. I want to help but idfk what to do : ( Someone help me please.

 

[_Alfarooq_]

My bf wants to kill himself, it hurts so bad, really fucking bad.
I don't wanna make this about myself as he's the one suffering but he's the only reason I'm alive, he's the only reason I'm pushing to live. If it wasn't for him I would've hung myself a long time ago. I already lost a friend to suicide, I can't lose the love of my life aswell. I wish people treated him better. I wish his life was better. I wish the people around him were better. I want to help but idfk what to do : ( Someone help me please.

Why don't you call the local CTB (suicide) hotline in your area and ask for some help? I assume you can't do that for some reason since you didn't say you tried that here. My suggestion Is to confront him and show him some love, hopefully he will lose the emotional audacity to attempt CTB.

 

[020x]

Tell him how you would feel if he does it. Try to convince him. If after all you did, he still chooses to not wanting to stay here, you'll have to accept it.

Hopefully all will go well so good luck

 

[Grimpoteuthis]

In my experiences it is impossibly hard to convince chronically suicidal people to change their mind. Even if they do, it would only be temporary and living with them will be a battle of constant fear and uncertainty. But if all he needs is a person who will unconditionally love and support him, then I would say there remains hope.

Just show him love and act normally. Don't overstress about how you worry about him since that would only fill him with guilt.

 

[EndJstifiesTheMeans]

Stay with him all the time, do videocalls and stuff.. but honestly is him choice in the end, maybe he have lot of mental pain

 

[AllFoxedOut]

the prospect of losing a loved one to suicide is very hard. all you can really do is show him unconditional love and affection. be open and honest about how you feel, but do it with compassion. acknowledge you're being selfish. acknowledge his pain.

if in the end he decides to go through through it, you'll know you did all you could.

worst case scenario you could call local authorities on him but be warned- this is likely to cause resentment unless he happens to be very understanding.

 

[Worndown]

Can you give him the same positive energy he gave you? Can you help him cope with whatever is taking him down?
Are meducations needed or are they the problem? I hope both of you can find a calmer life.

 

[FuneralCry]

If someone decides to cease existing on their own terms then that's a decision in which they have every right to make as after all only they are the ones who are trapped with themselves, nobody is obligated to suffer until they die anyway. I could never be surprised that so many wish for peace from this world filled with senseless cruelty and endless suffering.