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ItsOverIsntIt

ItsOverIsntIt

Experienced
Sep 9, 2020
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I have been planning on writing my suicide note soon but I've run into a problem? I want to write to some of my friends so should I just write separate notes for each person or just mention them in one note. I am not going to be writing a delayed email since I don't trust myself with those.
Does each person get a separate note or am I just overthinking this in a weird way?
I would like each person to only read whats for them so like I feel like should be writing multiple, is that weird? Do other people do this?
Im overthinking this way too much uggggghhhhhhh
 
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VIBRITANNIA

VIBRITANNIA

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Aug 10, 2020
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you're not overthinking it. i've heard other people contemplate the same thing. if you want other people to only read what's for them, then multiple notes is a good idea.
 
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HadEnough1974

I try to be funny...
Jan 14, 2020
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I would say one note, a general section then a section for each friend.
Oh sorry I misread your original post. Since you don't want others to read what you wrote them then yes, different notes for each.
 
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mooncake

mooncake

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Aug 7, 2020
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If you want each friend to have their own letter, because you have things to tell them personally, why not? I think that that's a very sweet way of showing how much you care about your loved ones, despite the hurt you're going through.

In the end it's up to you, and what you are most comfortable with. There are no rules to this anyways.
 
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nitroautnz

nitroautnz

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Sep 11, 2020
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That perfectly fine, it is very nice of you to do that.
I personally will do the same. I even start journaling hope that will help people to understand what is it to live daily with my chaotic brain :hihi:
 
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PJFord

PJFord

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Jul 27, 2020
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Multiple notes are a good idea. There are special and specific memories I only want each person to read. Fortunately I have a tiny amount of close friends so it's not a lot of notes. LOL

If you don't mind me adding here, it's a sweet gesture to say CTB was your idea and you were determined, and there is nothing the person could have done to prevent this. People close to you will likely question if they could have done something, or feel guilty for not seeing signs. It's thoughtful to assure them this was not their fault and there is nothing they could have done or said.
 
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andy69

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May 23, 2019
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I have been planning on writing my suicide note soon but I've run into a problem? I want to write to some of my friends so should I just write separate notes for each person or just mention them in one note. I am not going to be writing a delayed email since I don't trust myself with those.
Does each person get a separate note or am I just overthinking this in a weird way?
I would like each person to only read whats for them so like I feel like should be writing multiple, is that weird? Do other people do this?
Im overthinking this way too much uggggghhhhhhh
I think one is enough. But I am a lonely guy.
 

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