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[luten]

rant....i think it is time for dating again. I keep bumping into a girl at the gas station, her parents own the place. I think i am jist going to ask her for a coffee date and get it over with. Lots so much time already, and there will never bee a perfect time for doing something. If she says no, no big deal. Have to get out of the apartment today, get fresh air at beach and then to shopping mall. I hope everyone is doing ok with their recovery ! Take care of yourself, treat yourself well.

 

[timf]

One approach to the dating inquiry that you might want to consider is something like, "I really enjoy talking with you, maybe we could get a cup of coffee or something sometime".

It is a lighter touch to suggest a possibility. This also allows the other person to decline with something like, "I don't know, I have been pretty busy lately". They might even show enthusiasm for the suggestion like, "That sounds good, what would be a good time".

It sounds like you have a good perspective on not being decimated if there is a negative response. Good luck.

 

[luten]

One approach to the dating inquiry that you might want to consider is something like, "I really enjoy talking with you, maybe we could get a cup of coffee or something sometime".

It is a lighter touch to suggest a possibility. This also allows the other person to decline with something like, "I don't know, I have been pretty busy lately". They might even show enthusiasm for the suggestion like, "That sounds good, what would be a good time".

It sounds like you have a good perspective on not being decimated if there is a negative response. Good luck.

many thanks, i appreciate your input! and yes, rejection is not failure to me. many fish in the seas ....though , i am a long-term type of guy, never had a short-term relationship before

 

[strangeceleste]

Good luck! I hope she likes you too. You have a great attitude. Hope you have a lovely day, wish I could go to the beach

 

[luten]

Good luck! I hope she likes you too. You have a great attitude. Hope you have a lovely day, wish I could go to the beach

thank you for your message ! i actually don't go on the beach, just drive by with windows opened, music on full blast kekeke. it was fun, happens about 3 times a week, the winter is here, but it is still refreshing .