Oh, for sure men have the monopoly when it comes to the use of force -- sexual or not. Women tend to be much more manipulative, but are not above using force. Additionally female on male violence (i.e., domestic violence) tends to be underreported due to societal stereotypes.
I was not trying to imply that women and men are equal when it comes to violence, and sexual violence specifically, only that women are, indeed, capable of such acts, and that women committing these acts is on the rise. Or the reporting of such crimes is on the rise.
It's kinda hard to know which, though I tend to believe it is due to both facts -- women are more prone to violent acts now they have been before and men and their families and friends are much more likely to report a female attacking a male now than in other time periods in recent history.
Women are more manipulative? Really? Yet the amount of women that are controlled by men, and killed by men on a weekly basis would suggest otherwise. Coercion requires manipulation skills. Very good manipulation skills at that.
Yes, women can be perpetrators too, but it is no where near as common as you are implying here. Don't try to convince others otherwise. The statistics on male perpetrated violence suggests otherwise. Girls and women are not safe at night. A woman or girl is not going to over power and a rape a man/boy at night, or shout sexual comments, sexualising everything about them. That is manipulative. Women are seen in society as fragile individuals, incapable of caring for themselves. Again, this is manipulative and causes many issues for us in society. Do not tell me it doesn't. If it wasn't for the suffragettes, we wouldn't even have the right to vote.
Men have the physical advantage here, not women. Men are naturally manipulative, violent creatures, because they like to control us in order for them to feel manly.
Most women/girls do NOT REPORT. Imagine how high it would be if they did? Or if the piece of shit was actually punished for it? Or the women that go missing and decades later, oh wow.. the husband killed her, what a surprise (not).
Don't try to convince me it is 50/50, because it is NOT, nor will it ever be. Ever. Why were charities invented for women being abused? Why are there MANY refuges out there? I am speaking facts. Do a simple Google for fuck sake. What a load of shite you are talking.
Unfortunately, I don't know ONE woman I've met that hasn't been assaulted in one way by a man. Not one. Every single one of my girl friends I have had over the years have been raped by a man. Numerous times. Men think they can do this, women do not. Again, yes women can be perpetrators but it is NOT common
Can't believe this actually ended up as a debate over domestic violence. What on earth? Because you didn't like the fact that I mentioned male perpetrators, because the OP mentioned it. That is the only reason I mentioned it, and you just HAD to mention women in there, like that statement that people like to make -'nOt aLL mEn' (ridiculous)
This really got my back up, and I apologise for this, but I'm sure you would feel the same as a woman, and implying men have it JUST AS TOUGH, which they NEVER will.
I won't be responding further, because honestly, this is so triggering. And one of the reasons don't report - 'she's so manipulative' 'she's crazy' 'she's hysterical' - you use the typical words police forces believe from perps and I'm not going there.
My emotions really got the better of me here. My writing is terrible, but honestly, I don't care at this point, but I do care what impact it may have on the OP and I apologise for this, I'm sorry but I cannot sit there and take that
A man is likely to rape a corpse, yes.