Venting Loneliness

[eleanorhere]

It really annoys me all these lucky people saying how they can't cope without their partners while I literally haven't had anyone at all for years and have always been alone. Even my own parents know I'm struggling and instead of saying let's help you find places to get out and meet people I'm just left alone in my room to rot. It seems people who have got people already get more support then people who have no one at all. Have never had a supportive loving family, always been socially isolated while growing up. I'm now nearly 20 in a month and I literally know no where in my city I can go. I don't even have much of a life. It hurts. I've tried plenty of times online and have got no where, people just bail on me after awhile, or use me then leave when they get bored I feel really really upset. I have no one I can even meet in real life. So while all these people say how much they can't live without someone, I just sit there and think I've never truly had someone or proper friends, I've always always been alone and had to get through everyday alone. Thinking why don't I just ctb soon. Can't see the point in going on like this. Also lost my pet to cancer this month, everything is just too much. I feel so empty. No one understands anyway

 

[The Divine Comedy]

It does irk me when people that seem to have it better in many aspects like social life complain about problems that we would love to have, but one has to remember that most people are not as isolated as us. It seems like they have a better life but I tell myself that there are other things they have to deal with that I haven't even considered.

I'm sorry for the loss of your pet.

 

[FuneralCry]

I know that loneliness can be painful for many people. I'm sorry you are going through this. Being alive really is horrible. I also see no point to my life, I live a depressing empty existence. I hope you find peace.

 

[forgotten15]

I feel your pain. I am like that too. It is really painful to be this lonely but for some of us life is just like this and won't ever get better. I have accepted it and all that is left now is to gather the courage to ctb. I often think how can others have so much in life(friends , family, happiness) and others have only suffering.

 

[HappyPotato]

i feel your pain too. I've never really had deep meaningful friendships and have always felt lonely.

 

[Chisel]

We live in a sick world. Where we've turned it into one giant popularity contest.
People suffer more now with mental health issues imo mostly because we're constantly subjected to being judged for trivial things and we, who are not the best or most popular are constantly reminded of this.
It's makes me laugh how society beats its drum about mental health and being more accepting of each other, but allows for more and more isolation of the less desirable.
And then wonder why people ctb?

 

[Josuyo]

It really annoys me all these lucky people saying how they can't cope without their partners while I literally haven't had anyone at all for years and have always been alone. Even my own parents know I'm struggling and instead of saying let's help you find places to get out and meet people I'm just left alone in my room to rot. It seems people who have got people already get more support then people who have no one at all. Have never had a supportive loving family, always been socially isolated while growing up. I'm now nearly 20 in a month and I literally know no where in my city I can go. I don't even have much of a life. It hurts. I've tried plenty of times online and have got no where, people just bail on me after awhile, or use me then leave when they get bored I feel really really upset. I have no one I can even meet in real life. So while all these people say how much they can't live without someone, I just sit there and think I've never truly had someone or proper friends, I've always always been alone and had to get through everyday alone. Thinking why don't I just ctb soon. Can't see the point in going on like this. Also lost my pet to cancer this month, everything is just too much. I feel so empty. No one understands anyway

I used to think I couldn't live without certain people but it can be a real slippy slope depending on someone so much. It's hurt bad when friends and partners have left me but I've learnt I don't NEED them to survive. I survived without them before and I'll do it again, even if just to spite them. I'm so sorry about your pet tho lovely, that is truly awful. When people fail you it's truly a blessing to have a wee animal there for you. I hope time will bring you better things. No one deserves to feel alone.

 

[Rational man]

People who say they can't live without someone are often bound by 'chains', maybe insecure. After all, couples rarely die at the same time. Being single offers the opportunity to follow your pathway, and meet people enroute. Be kind to you❤

 

[Seafoam]

Being stuck alone is some ass. sorry about your pet.

 

[TheHatedOne]

Loool just know that having a ''partner'' but them mistreating you is much worse than havning no partner at all. In rest I agree with ya. I'm sorry for your loss.

 

[Marktheghost]

You can pm me and make friends with me if you want.

 

[Billgatesbanunga]

Seems we are in the same boat

 

[LonelyBrazilian]

Same here.

 

[LONE WOLF.]

@eleanorhere, l'm sorry for the loss of your pet.