Lullaby
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- Mar 9, 2022
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I've realized that I'm not going to be the one who gets a happy ending when it comes to love or relationships. I'm not going to have a some crazy, amazing romance.
I'm the woman who is talked to for a couple of days, might get lucky and it last for a month or two, then I ghosted because I'm annoying, or they just got tired of me, or someone else came along whose better…which is the typical scenario; there's always someone who's better than me. I'm just going to end up alone.
I feel so pathetic even venting about this, because I have so much more other issues that I deal with that are worse but this is at the forefront of my head. I'll be 28 this summer, I always imagined myself by the time I was around 30 I'd be in a really great relationship, getting married at some point, becoming a mother.
I've never seen a single healthy relationship in my family. My parents were horribly abusive to each other, and with their future partners. None of my siblings have been able to keep a stable relationship…so it feels like that's just not going to happen and I'm kidding myself.
I'm coming off of a really, really bad heartbreak, so I guess that's why I'm such a mess about this. I've been through a lot of them over the years, but this one really killed me because I had never had a connection like this before with anyone previously.
Now, I don't have an SO, I've lost all of my friends, I don't get along with my family. Some days it really adds onto my intrusive thoughts, and makes me feel like I don't have a place here in the world.
Sorry for this dumb rambling. I'm a little embarrassed but I really need to vent.
I'm the woman who is talked to for a couple of days, might get lucky and it last for a month or two, then I ghosted because I'm annoying, or they just got tired of me, or someone else came along whose better…which is the typical scenario; there's always someone who's better than me. I'm just going to end up alone.
I feel so pathetic even venting about this, because I have so much more other issues that I deal with that are worse but this is at the forefront of my head. I'll be 28 this summer, I always imagined myself by the time I was around 30 I'd be in a really great relationship, getting married at some point, becoming a mother.
I've never seen a single healthy relationship in my family. My parents were horribly abusive to each other, and with their future partners. None of my siblings have been able to keep a stable relationship…so it feels like that's just not going to happen and I'm kidding myself.
I'm coming off of a really, really bad heartbreak, so I guess that's why I'm such a mess about this. I've been through a lot of them over the years, but this one really killed me because I had never had a connection like this before with anyone previously.
Now, I don't have an SO, I've lost all of my friends, I don't get along with my family. Some days it really adds onto my intrusive thoughts, and makes me feel like I don't have a place here in the world.
Sorry for this dumb rambling. I'm a little embarrassed but I really need to vent.