just know this : just because everyone say something is something, doesn't mean it's true. Sure, i could say you're the biggest asshole ive ever met, just because the whole forum comes in and agrees with me, doesn't mean it's right. I don't know you at all, so a family member could barge in and say "fuck off, i know my boy/girl, he is a great person, and you can't judge him/her because of what they said" well, funny enough, she's wrong as well, see it as this, nothing is right, and nothing is wrong. EVERYTHING goes by that logic.
Let me explain : there is a "6" on the ground, and the person infront of you see a "9", is he wrong ? not really, does he say the truth ? well nope, you can see a 6 as well. You can go to his place, he can go to your place, BUT THE 9 or the 6 will always remain, no matter how much people are on each sides.
What i mean if you don't understand me is, don't take shit from no one, no matter if it is true or false, because in the end, nothing is, it's just our different brains percepting things more or less. I know it's a hard thing to say, but try not to care. Just because a community is nice doesn't mean they are right, and just because a community is toxic doesn't mean they are wrong, life is just a shitty sandbox, or rather, a litterbox, feel free to bend things however you want them to understand them haha.
