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EndJstifiesTheMeans

EndJstifiesTheMeans

Bad english, didn't go to school sorry
May 14, 2023
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Life is selfish, parents made us without asking,they can do that even if they are extremely poor,mentally ill or just they dont care raising them properly and pretend that we are happy and love them

CTB is the opposite i can't force people to like me, the person i love to marry me, stay with me etc
So CTB is the right way because i can't pretend love and happines from other people
 
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figure8

figure8

The sun goes down
Jul 17, 2023
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The only reason why CTB is perceived as selfish is because we are culturally imposed to believe so. This weird view on suicide and death in general, the belief that it's a reason for grieving and mourning, it's what the society expects. But it's much more preferable to die on your own terms than wait long years for something that's inevitable. CTB means that you're done with this world and that you feel like there's nothing left for you to do (if you don't rush your CTB because of strong emotions etc. The association with depression doesn't help with changing other people's minds as well, but what's wrong with wanting to get rid of the pain you have to endure every day, mental and/or physical?).
Of course, ultimately the only reason behind that imposition is so that we run in our little wheels like the obedient hamsters that we are, without questioning the reason why exactly we're running and who has the most profit from us doing so.
 
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pochii

pochii

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May 27, 2023
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I agree full heartedly. I think about this a lot. Everyone will tell you to always put yourself first and your wellbeing first. But when you are suffering and want to end it people will call you selfish and cruel and to think about others. It is a full 180 and you need to start putting others first and only live for those around you. Sometimes I wonder if they knew how much pain we were in if they would let us go.
 
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Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
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I see it a bit different. Yes it's true we didn't ask for existence, no doubt. But the yway we have to exist in th eenvironment, which is not the natural enviroment humans are made for like all other existing creatures. So this is the main problem, But this does not exclude the right too CTB because humanity is so huge that a single person isn't important for the whole success of the species anymore. Please don't get me wrong here, I see it from a pure scientific point of view! CTB is unfortunately spo incredibly dioffiocult in our anti-sucide society, causing so much more unnecessary harm, agnony and suffering.
 
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FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
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I see the true selfish thing as being to cruelly force life here, expecting that person to delay their inevitable fate when they wish to be free, insisting that someone must suffer is inhumane as we aren't obligated to continue enduring this burden that was forced upon us, we all have our right to die. Not everyone even wants to exist here anyway and for many the only relief lies in death.
 
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