Venting LDR

[mold]

so my partner have been in a long distance relationship for about a year now, and we've met before, but i honestly feel like this distance is just affecting me negatively. should i say something to them about it? or should i just keep quiet? we really love each other but it just makes my mental health so much worse

 

[Pilum Muralis]

I was in an LDR for close to 10 years. He was in Utah, and I was in California. I get how it affects your mental health. I'd be so frustrated, then sad, then vow to end it, then profess my undying love for him. And just the pain of loving someone so much, and not being able to express it to them. I'd see him maybe a total of 2 weeks a year. Honestly, by year 7, I was done, but I didn't want to be alone, and I did still love him. I know that sounds funny, not wanting to be alone with someone never around . I loved him, but neither of us were willing to move, due to our work.

What's your situation like? How close do you live to one another? Have you discussed your future living arrangements?

 

[mold]

I was in an LDR for close to 10 years. He was in Utah, and I was in California. I get how it affects your mental health. I'd be so frustrated, then sad, then vow to end it, then profess my undying love for him. And just the pain of loving someone so much, and not being able to express it to them. I'd see him maybe a total of 2 weeks a year. Honestly, by year 7, I was done, but I didn't want to be alone, and I did still love him. I know that sounds funny, not wanting to be alone with someone never around . I loved him, but neither of us were willing to move, due to our work.

What's your situation like? How close do you live to one another? Have you discussed your future living arrangements?

he lives in another continent and we have no idea what to do for the future :/ we've met before, but as of right now neither of us can move