Last wishes before CTB?

[TheRaul95]

Maybe custom music, clothes, message...

 

[LastFlowers]

My wishes are No announcement, No wake (and definitely NO open casket), No funeral, NO obituary, NO nonsense on social media about me (I stay off there for good reason), and No pictures passed around (anywhere), Cremate me and throw me to the wind somewhere.

If they can't manage that, which is my true wish- and by default makes it pretty easy on those who have to play it out..then they're just being selfish asses with no respect for the suffering or the dead. People love to make another person's death about them!
I also would like to request that no one start supporting suicide prevention in my name, because I do NOT support that shit.

 

[Isittimetogonola]

In my letters, I asked my friends to take my ashes to a bar, have a drink on me. Venmo is awesome. My best friend said that she would not hesitate pouring my ashes in the gutter. I know that is her way of saying she loves me.

 

[GoBack]

It really doesn't matter what I want for that, it doesn't matter now while I'm alive do they'll just do what they please anyway

 

[allym101]

My only wish is for no one to dwell on my death. I just want to be a passing figure in everyone's life, forgotten. I just want my family to be able to forget about me and move on quickly. I also hope people don't use my death as a suicide awareness article saying how I could've been "saved" or some other bs. I don't want a fuss at all.

 

[The Dark Chaos]

I just want myy friends and fam to accept myy decision of ctb and I don't want them to dewll on myy deathh.

 

[aukguy]

No funeral, just a basic cremation and to be scattered somewhere I loved. For my decision to be about my decision and not how it makes others feel. In essence, it wasnt a decision to spite them.

 

[SpottedPanda]

Ideally I'd rather be buried, with no autopsy. Messing around with my body or burning it just doesn't sit right with me. Other than that, I have few preferences. In my view I'm not going to witness or remember any of it, so it matters little

 

[Smashingairwaves]

Probably selfish of me but I want to be buried. Natural burial, no embalming. A nice headstone.

Knowing my family they'll do the cheapest cremation possible because they'd rather spend their money on alcohol

 

[TAW122]

My music, meal, tastes, and other stuff just solely depends on how I'm feeling at the time, it's hard to narrow it down. However, my message will remain the same even at the time of death.

My message would be "This is my choice and mine alone. If I lived in a world, a society that respects my true bodily autonomy in regards to be able to have a peaceful, dignified (and controlled) death, then I would not have to hide, lie, deceive, and go to such great lengths to find peace. I hope that someday society recognizes and acknowledges that not all people who are suicidal are depressed nor irrational; in fact, there are quite a few that know how the world works and that life sucks so they decide that life is NOT worth living for them. People should respect that bodily autonomy and let those people be. It is ironic how people are pro-choice when it comes to abortions, the right to refuse or accept certain things in life, yet when it comes to the most fundamental and perhaps most important choice, the choice to decide whether to live or die, society and government does not respect that choice."