Venting Last hope ex gf

[Vexadin]

My gf broke up with me 9 days ago out of nowhere. Everything went well, she felt like a dream. I saw an actual future with her, one i could never have imagined. I just send a text to see if she is willing to go for a walk and to hope we can talk about whatever bothered her.

 

[blckfurmutt]

the best thing you can do for yourself right now is distance yourself from her, i know what i'm saying sounds extremely difficult because you just lost the love of your life, and you imagined a future with her. but if there is any chance of getting her back, reaching out wont work. this sounds manipulative but the more silent you stay, and the less you "seem" to care, the more likely they are to come back. stay safe :-)

 

[praythestars]

My gf broke up with me 9 days ago out of nowhere. Everything went well, she felt like a dream. I saw an actual future with her, one i could never have imagined. I just send a text to see if she is willing to go for a walk and to hope we can talk about whatever bothered her.

Really sorry to hear that. I hope you get some answers, even if the answer/s might hurt a bit. I'd suggest really sitting down and trying to think of what might have caused her to do that so you can hopefully be a bit prepared/not completely taken aback if she does answer you, so that any shock or surprise doesn't detract from your ability to discuss it if given the chance.

 

[InevitableDeath]

Hope it works out for you, but never rely on other people for your happiness as they will always let you down. Always.

Learn to love yourself.

 

[ghosted1]

Could I give you some perspective? As someone whose ex contributed to their suicidal thoughts. In 2024, me and my ex split up and those emotions were heavy. I was hurting, and so we he. We still loved one another, but couldn't be together due to something I had done. But it was a normal breakup. Now when it comes to love, it's always agonising to lose someone who means so much to you. They were your everything, your safety, your love. But the thing is, there's an endless amount of room in your heart. There will be so many more chances of a caring, loving relationship one that will be more fulfilling. Even if you can't see that right now.

Me? I don't have the chance to date anyone any more, and that mistake came from when my ex got back together with me shortly after breaking up. When you're so vulnerable and raw, and someone takes you back so soon, there can be the chance to cause all sorts of hurt.

Hurt that won't leave, that can alter your life. Right now, you're hurting but you've still got many more chances. Imagine going back with someone, when there's a possibility things could be so much better.

You don't want to be stuck prolonging your suffering, do you? You're safe. You're secure. And healing yourself is the best thing you can do. The breakup pain won't last forever. (Sorry if this is bad advice...)
It may have been bad advice, as I know one size doesn't fit all. I guess what I'm really trying to say is the opportunity for love is still out there. You'll heal again someday.

 

[Boeing666]

Mine left when I got that walk to talk about it she just talked about her new GF the whole time, ya was not fun.