WitheringAway
Ima shake the champagne bottle...
- Jun 23, 2020
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In this hooking up culture and tinder; It's basically impossible to find connections that are actually worth it. Do you guys date at all?
In this hooking up culture and tinder; It's basically impossible to find connections that are actually worth it. Do you guys date at all?
This man is bringing back the spicy incel content! Give him a cookie or something!I'm too disfunctional as a person for any one to like me, I can't talk to anyone and
Interacting with other human beings makes me extremely anxious in any situation
To me living in society is a necessary evil,
something that I put up with because it's the only way to survive.
and I'm not good looking either.
It's a good thing that I don't desire women that much. I can live without them the same way I can live without a pool or a fancy car.
Even If I had one I wouldn't know what to do with her.
The only thing I find interesting/of value
in them is their ability to physically comfort me (sex and cuddles)
Most women aren really not that interesting personality wise,
and I'm not
a fan of small talk or doing things that normal people do
voluntary celibateThis man is bringing back the spicy incel content! Give him a cookie or something!
umm..well i'm happy you're not trying to date cause the way u described women was so misogynistic, its like men find it so hard to respect women..i dont understandI'm too disfunctional as a person for any one to like me, I can't talk to anyone and
Interacting with other human beings makes me extremely anxious in any situation
To me living in society is a necessary evil,
something that I put up with because it's the only way to survive.
and I'm not good looking either.
It's a good thing that I don't desire women that much. I can live without them the same way I can live without a pool or a fancy car.
Even If I had one I wouldn't know what to do with her.
The only thing I find interesting/of value
in them is their ability to physically comfort me (sex and cuddles)
Most women aren really not that interesting personality wise,
and I'm not
a fan of small talk or doing things that normal people do
Not just men, skinny baby faced boys find it hard to respect women too lolumm..well i'm happy you're not trying to date cause the way u described women was so misogynistic, its like men find it so hard to respect women..i dont understand
Not just men, skinny baby faced boys find it hard to respect women too lol
hey I'm joking! don't get triggered, please.
You're a wonderful person, smile :)
I'm just telling you the way it is, the crude truth of how my lizard and mammal brain perceive this "pattern" called women. I don't want you to get offended or anything. It's just nature.
I understand you're a human being with a complex mind,
but whenever I'm around them (your kind) all they talk about is social media, singers, tv shows and all of that mainstream horse shit
I just don't relate to you, but
I do have sexual needs and a desire to feel loved and nurtured, and for
that I don't need someone that's relatable/interesting to me
You don't need to be interesting to give me cuddles, you get what I mean?
I can just pretend that I like your social media stuff to manipulate you into loving me
Push the right buttons to get the right effect out of you,
I get my cuddles and you get, well whatever you wanted to get out of me
Not that I have anything to offer, and that's the whole point
I'm completely worthless
The reason why I'll probably never date is that you
women want strong men with at least some decent social status, and money (my social status is called social anxiety disorder, which means zero status, I can't even talk to people)
As far as being strong goes, I'm skinny as a stick
Considering all of these factors, what do you think the odds of me finding a woman that's at least a 6 or a 7 (appearance wise) are?
I see men that are better looking than me (the big jaw-face, hunter eyes, tall, wide and every other physical trait that releases good feeling chemicals in the female brain) and they
have girlfriends that are like 5s or 4s.
I mean if even they can't do better than that, what chance do I have, since I'm an ant compared to them, and I don't
even like what they have to be honest.
I'm not going to bother to spend resources and effort into improving myself, just so that I can
have an ugly girl.
To me women are only valuable for the "affection" part, that's it.
And I just can't see myself receiving that from someone that I don't find sexually attractive.
It just wouldn't work.
Yeah, well regardless,There's some truth in what you say, even though it comes off slightly negative.
Keep in mind, though, that those female 4s and 5s who get to date the kind of men that you describe, are likely to just be discarded by those men, since they are just sleeping around and don't care about the women. The bottom line is that dating is probably horrible for most people in various ways.
Yeah, well regardless,
the type of women that I'm into are out of my league,
completely unaffordable.
And they're the only kind of women that would make me happy, make
the sweat and struggle of defeating my social anxiety and my fast metabolism be worth it.
And I'm assuming here that I could actually fix myself.
Certain mental conditions are pretty much permanent. It's just how your brain chemistry works, and you can't really do much about it.
I'm into the slender round faced ones with mature personalities, and the face has to be somewhat angelic looking, she can't have a big nose or things like that (cute,intelligent and responsible are the keywords here) .
These women that are 6-7s to me, could probably be 8s or 9s to you.
Just like what I consider to be a 4 or a 5 could be your 6.
To me a 4 isn't someone that's deformed.
It's just a girl that's ugly, but you don't feel like vomiting when you look at her, she isn't repulsive.
A 5 is leaning towards cuteness but isn't really there, has clear defects on her face,
such as a strong wide jaw, instead of a more feminine one. Or maybe she's fat and she'd be a 6 without the weight.
I'm trying to make you see my mental picture.
Sexual attraction is subjective to some extent, and I do have high standards of beauty (and personality). I think spending most of my time inside the house looking
at photos of women instead of actually looking at real women could be the reason for that, I dunno.
I see relatively strong, masculine men (Face wise) that are at least 3 points above me (I'm a 4, maybe I could be a 5 if I wasn't underweight, and that's appearance wise only, if you count my terrible and empty personality I lose at least 1 more point, so I guess I'm a 3 overall)
and they have fat chicks as girlfriends, not even necessarily that ugly in the face, but
just the fact that someone that is actually worth something compared to me (i firmly believe that I'm valueless as a man) had to settle for that mediocrity only shows me that I would have an extremely hard time to date someone that I would actually like and find attractive.
You're saying these aren't really their girlfriends, but even so, trust me I wouldn't fuck half of the women
I see these big faced muscular men with.
The girls that I like have better options so why would they bother be with me, someone that
can't even function as a person in society, let alone be a real man.
What even is the point of dating a man that can't protect you, or provide for you?
Isn't that what women want us for? Isn't that our function/purpose?
I think my point is that women are expensive, it takes time and effort to get one, and
after all of that investment you don't even know if it's gonna last.
She can just get bored of you one day, and then all of your sacrifices will be flushed down the toilet.
They'll never really love you unconditionally either, like your mother or sister/brother does.
You'll never really be worth something to them, because before they get old and ugly they can always replace you with
the other hundreds of men that are also interested in them.
We males just weren't designed by nature to be loved by any one other than ourselves.
We're not cute and cuddly like women are. When we rip our nails off we can't
just cry and have people feel sorry for us because we're soft and harmless and deserve attention like a puppy does.
A guy could get beaten up, tortured in the most horrible ways and nobody would give a shit.
All a woman has to do to have people care about her feelings is to exist and not be ugly.
You have to do way more than that as a guy if you want people to value you and
not get irritated by your mere existence in the tribe.
I mean jesus fucking christ think of all the skinny, pussy 18 year olds, many even younger than that, that were all drafted and had
to be burned alive, tortured or raped in wars anyway, even though they were probably just as weak and delicate as their pussy sisters, girlfriends
and other female acquaintances.
Women get too many advantages in life if you ask me. All they have to worry about is not have
some creep touch their ass without their consent when they go out. They don't have to do much else.
They're like children that never grow up.
Nobody expects them to prove themselves or do anything other than have a job.
They don't have to become "Real women" like we have to become "real men".
Well anyway who cares what I like and why I don't think dating is worth it for me,
why did I even bother typing this lol
It's just nice to be able to actually talk about it
I don't think I'd have the guts to say these things in real life,
I don't have to be an actor here
It means that a weak soft effeminate boy still had to fight for his country in world war 2, because he had a dick, and if you have handsI don't fully understand what you mean. Women aren't drafted into wars, are they? I guess it depends on which country we are talking about.
I disagree that women are weaker mentally to men, statistics show instead that more men commit suicide or are homeless. It's more probable that women have a tougher psyche than men, although they produce less geniuses as a trade off for their more stable minds.It means that a weak soft effeminate boy still had to fight for his country in world war 2, because he had a dick, and if you have hands
you can shoot with a gun
The whole point of women not having to be the protectors is that they're weak (physically and mentally)
It means that a weak soft effeminate boy still had to fight for his country in world war 2, because he had a dick, and if you have hands
you can shoot with a gun
The whole point of women not having to be the protectors is that they're weak (physically and mentally)
that's why you don't put them in prison with rapey angry dominant Tyrone with tattoos.
You put them in prison with other soft women like them instead, because you understand they're not equal to tyrone.
But not all men are tyrones either,
some of us are pussies and we can't do anything about it.
I've been trying to gain weight for years and I'm still failing.
Even in the face I barely look like a man (the short hair, that's about it). I don't think I was born to be a fighter/protector.
I'm clearly at a disadvantage in a fight.
There are men that are mentally and physically weak, just like women are mentally and physically weak,
but they don't get the same special treatment
If you're weak as a guy, maybe even homosexual (I'm not, just giving you an example of other weak men) it just means you're going to be bullied or die (in certain situations like a war),
it doesn't mean society will think of you as a cute puppy that must be protected
You don't seem unloveable to me. That's pretty much my main criteria as well, just someone who loves me, maybe not as much as I love them but enough to feel that I'm not being used or taken advantage of. I think it's just difficult to find someone like that, where you both like each other and everything aligns. Most of the people I'd be attracted to and could see myself being with, would probably be the same people that feel unloveable themselves and so it's hard to maintain a connection with them for all the reasons you stated.I've never been on a date in all my 28 years of life and I'm going to be forever alone because I'm a scared little bitch boy who can't even contemplate rejection or failure. Every moment I'm not in an intimate relationship with the opposite sex is a moment I curse my own useless presence for being too afraid to take any of the necessary actions that would even get me closer to getting on a date. I willingly embraced being an incel because it means I don't have to fall in love again because no self respecting sane individual would be able to reasonably love me which is usually my number 1 criteria for liking someone. The only thing my soul wants to live for is one of the many things that makes me evil for wanting to ruin someone's life by the mere thought of being with such a horrible being such as myself.
Thanks. Though my evidence for believing I'm unlovable stems from the fact that no one has loved me yet in this sort of fashion. I also feel vile because I do actually have what many would consider plenty of familial and platonic support and yet it's still not enough for me. I think on a surface level one may not be able to see the flaws in me because I've been pretty vague about them plus there are probably tons of other mistakes I'm bound to make due to my lack of experience. I don't mean to argue, I'm just trying to clear the air that sometimes my self hatred gives some people the idea that I'm actually trying to manipulate sympathy when I only mean to tell the truth of my own irredeemable shortcomings.You don't seem unloveable to me. That's pretty much my main criteria as well, just someone who loves me, maybe not as much as I love them but enough to feel that I'm not being used or taken advantage of. I think it's just difficult to find someone like that, where you both like each other and everything aligns. Most of the people I'd be attracted to and could see myself being with, would probably be the same people that feel unloveable themselves and so it's hard to maintain a connection with them for all the reasons you stated.
Almost everyone I've ever been with irl or online would resonate with the feeling of being unloveable or undesirable in one way or another. The exceptions of people who loved themselves and overestimated their own value tended to be among the most toxic relationships I've ever had. So I could be bias but it seems that way to me.
Yeah, well that could beI see.
I believe that this is nature's way of sorting out which people are fit to live and reproduce, and who's not. Since we humans don't need to kill each other, in normal circumstances, having weak people not reproduce may be nature's new way of implementing "kill or be killed".
Yeah, well that could be
you don't see many people that look like me being married and having kids.
anyway biological evolution is a dead end for civilization. Meat and bones are slow and weak.
All men will eventually become useless, without value. and so will all the women
all jobs will be replaced in a century or two. And whoever/whatever replaces us
won't see any point in keeping us around for solidarity.
If nature is truly ruthless and only allows the strong to live and flourish, that means
the human race has maybe 100 years maybe a little bit more left before going extinct
(That's when the technological singularity is predicted to happen)
A computer will eventually know how to do everything you do, and do it even better and faster,
then it might even develop a simulated consciousness of his own and be programmed with a need for self-preservation,
that's when humanity is screwed
There will be a new predator in town
You're assuming the ones owning the robots will pay usThis sounds bleak, but I think that you are close to the truth, at least.
We will simply need to find other things with which to occupy our time.