Venting IS SOMEONE GOING TO BAN THIS PIECE OF SHIT????

[EmmaD]

 

[Source Energy]

Why would you even give this person your number/messenger/ whatever that was - if you don't see eye to eye on the forum? It doesn't make any sense. Why engage at all? there is the Ignore feature, make use of it.

 

[EmmaD]

Why would you even give this person your number/messenger/ whatever that was - if you don't see eye to eye on the forum? It doesn't make any sense. Why engage at all? there is the Ignore feature, make use of it.

I have an insta account with a couple of pics on and no personal info of mine so I messaged as he requested as he is sus as fuck and I wanted to know what he was trying to do.
I thought he was probably a pro-lifer or something. I've deleted that account now anyway I never used it
Seriously???????

 

[SoftWorries]

You can just message internally on here. Better to not give out your personal information especially to people you don't trust.

 

[Not.Flugel]

I have an insta account with a couple of pics on and no personal info of mine so I messaged as he requested as he is sus as fuck and I wanted to know what he was trying to do.
I thought he was probably a pro-lifer or something. I've deleted that account now anyway I never used it
Seriously???????

Why? Why would you write with either a troll or a massive weirdo?

 

[EmmaD]

Why? Why would you write with either a troll or a massive weirdo?

Because I thought it was Catherine/ Mel trying to mess with me. I don't have any privacy to worry about it being violated. Everyone knows who I am.

 

[Challu]

Sad..

 

[Nebel_meer]

Thank you for raising this issue, Emma. This guy was a weirdo

 

[woh6]

I remember seeing their comments on the last post, seemed very suspicious. Hope you're okay

 

[FuneralCry]

I don't know what this is about and I never need to, but I don't understand why people make threads like this screenshotting posts when instead they can just press the report button. That is why the report button is there and the user being talked about is gone now. It literally says in the rules of the site don't make threads to get others riled up, maybe people should read the rules before posting on here, I don't think that threads like this is what the suicide discussion is meant for.

 

[Zelda-frog]

I don't know what this is about and I never need to, but I don't understand why people make threads like this screenshotting posts when instead they can just press the report button. That is why the report button is there and the user being talked about is gone now. It literally says in the rules of the site don't make threads to get others riled up, maybe people should read the rules before posting on here, I don't think that threads like this is what the suicide discussion is meant for.

WHOOP WHOOP, it's the sound of the police. But fr, why do people care more about the rules on this site than other things?

 

[EmmaD]

I don't know what this is about and I never need to, but I don't understand why people make threads like this screenshotting posts when instead they can just press the report button. That is why the report button is there and the user being talked about is gone now. It literally says in the rules of the site don't make threads to get others riled up, maybe people should read the rules before posting on here, I don't think that threads like this is what the suicide discussion is meant for.

I did report him a few times.. but he was posting more weird stuff and messaging me. So I posted the thread to try to get mods to notice what he was doing. Why do you really care?

 

[cgrtt.brns]

hate that people here are just completely disregarding the issue and go straight to asking why you would talk to them or post about it. sorry you had to receive that kind of judgement. i would encourage in future not to interact with people from here anywhere but on this site just bc of how scary it can be, but besides that hes a fucking creep and should mind his own fucking business. kinda worrying when he said he knows ur husband, or unless i misinterpreted that part. i hope ur doing ok.

 

[EmmaD]

hate that people here are just completely disregarding the issue and go straight to asking why you would talk to them or post about it. sorry you had to receive that kind of judgement. i would encourage in future not to interact with people from here anywhere but on this site just bc of how scary it can be, but besides that hes a fucking creep and should mind his own fucking business. kinda worrying when he said he knows ur husband, or unless i misinterpreted that part. i hope ur doing ok.

Thank you so much I was thinking the same.
Yes I did notice he said he knows my ex but that's just a load of bollocks/ him trying to intimidate. Xx

 

[Obliviate]

Not sure if they have been already but that user should be banned as that was very inappropriate. The mods have their own rules when deciding if people should be banned so even if we think an inappropriate individual should be banned, they can just receive warnings. Those warnings can then lead to a ban.

I also agree with the comment above and hate when people automatically blame the victim instead of the perpetrator and dismiss the issue. Ignoring an issue or indivual and letting them rampage on does absolutely nothing to help and even encourages them.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

What thread was this on?

 

[Aisley]

Christ, your life is a series of sentences with creeps as the punctuation points. I'm sorry. I do wish you would be more careful, though. You seem to have stripped away all layers of protection, and live your most real selves on all plarforms. You make it real easy for a stalker, you know? I'm so seriously not trying to piss you off, Emma. I worried about you a few days ago watching posts on another platform, where calls were made, and I just cringed inside for your safety. I know nothing about bpd, but please find some way to pull back a little. You have real aspects at stake in this life, other than your life.

WHOOP WHOOP, it's the sound of the police. But fr, why do people care more about the rules on this site than other things?

Most of those rules are the brick wall between this site existing, and it being taken down. They're not there for fun.

 

[EmmaD]

Christ, your life is a series of sentences with creeps as the punctuation points. I'm sorry. I do wish you would be more careful, though. You seem to have stripped away all layers of protection, and live your most real selves on all plarforms. You make it real easy for a stalker, you know? I'm so seriously not trying to piss you off, Emma. I worried about you a few days ago watching posts on another platform, where calls were made, and I just cringed inside for your safety. I know nothing about bpd, but please find some way to pull back a little. You have real aspects at stake in this life, other than your life.

Most of those rules are the brick wall between this site existing, and it being taken down. They're not there for fun.

I know you're not trying to piss me off don't worry. You're sort of right about me stripping off my layers of protection. I don't understand boundaries and always think I should be real/ honest, ridiculously so. I always try to be self aware and say why I do things but to be honest I don't even know. I know in the last few weeks I've felt worse and worse though. Maybe I've sought out things to damage me. In therapy one psychologist told me it's like I set myself up to be criticised, like I want to be told I'm shit by people.
I DON'T KNOW.. all I know is if anyone wants a real example of bad mental health or bpd I'm it.
Honestly I've said I'm not currently suicidal, but recently I think about it a lot of each day.

 

[Aisley]

In my happiest times, suicide never had less than a fully furnished, calm quiet room in my head. There is always a fully lit exit sign that says eveything is alright as long as I'm here because I choose to be. And my most self destructive days were seen by no one currently in my life. Layers upon layers, burned bridges and fake names and shit like that, and things I never say out loud. Like it never happened. But idk if how you live is self-destructive, necessarily. Maybe it's a reaching for boundaries, but they're too fluid?You're so immediately here, idk what I can say to that, that would help. But I wish I could.

 

[EmmaD]

In my happiest times, suicide never had less than a fully furnished, calm quiet room in my head. There is always a fully lit exit sign that says eveything is alright as long as I'm here because I choose to be. And my most self destructive days were seen by no one currently in my life. Layers upon layers, burned bridges and fake names and shit like that, and things I never say out loud. Like it never happened. But idk if how you live is self-destructive, necessarily. Maybe it's a reaching for boundaries, but they're too fluid?You're so immediately here, idk what I can say to that, that would help. But I wish I could.

You just have helped. How you just described suicide as a room in your head.. and about the exit sign and things being ok as long as you're here because you choose to be? That's exactly how I feel. And this is why I'm on this site… Because of people like you who understand.. You just put into words exactly how I feel better than I ever could.
As to the rest, me working out why I do things I do.. I have no idea..I'll leave that to the psychotherapists, it's always interesting seeing what they come up with!!