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noname223
Angelic
- Aug 18, 2020
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I think this could sound like a was really young. I am roundabout in my mid-twenties. I often describe how obsessed I am about what other people think of me. I think it is kind of pathological and caused by extreme bullying as a teenager. It feels like I can't be fixed in this instance. It is very entrenched in my way of thinking. It can cause manic sympptoms or extreme feelings of shame. Honestly I doubt I will ever get rid of that. Though maybe it decreases a little bit when I am older.
I think many people in their 40s or 50s wrote me this. I am not sure whether I will reach this age in order to find it out. Do you want to share your experiences with it? Maybe this is a good question for older SS members? I can't really notice a difference to my time as a teenager concerning this issue. I am just the same (in this instance). Really insecure and the fear of failing is eating me alive.
I think many people in their 40s or 50s wrote me this. I am not sure whether I will reach this age in order to find it out. Do you want to share your experiences with it? Maybe this is a good question for older SS members? I can't really notice a difference to my time as a teenager concerning this issue. I am just the same (in this instance). Really insecure and the fear of failing is eating me alive.