Is it possible to not feel bad for not being able to be like others ?

[StillWaiting]

Can't seems to stop myself from thinking that I am a loser just because I see how others are moving towards their goals or living their life to their fullest ?

 

[oxymoron]

No. You'll either feel sad or angry that others have a much better life than you. That is what I feel. That is what has been served on my plate.

 

[pole]

Can't seems to stop myself from thinking that I am a loser just because I see how others are moving towards their goals or living their life to their fullest ?

same, but it makes me happy seeing friends and those i know succeed and live a better life than i ever will. dont despise them or feel angry about it. ir anything yeah, only thing i feel is sadness and self pity for myself. just think i was destined or meant to live this sort of life, and that it was inevitable.

 

[StillWaiting]

same, but it makes me happy seeing friends and those i know succeed and live a better life than i ever will. dont despise them or feel angry about it. ir anything yeah, only thing i feel is sadness and self pity for myself. just think i was destined or meant to live this sort of life, and that it was inevitable.

Kinda wish I can accept my fate

 

[deflagrat]

What's wrong with being a "loser"? Their life is probably far from perfect. Embrace what you are and don't feel sorry for yourself.

 

[pole]

Kinda wish I can accept my fate

if you haven't accepted you're fate yet, you aren't long gone inside, but still battling with part of you holding out hope. feel like people who are just absolutely long gone and numb have accepted their lives and the fate that its come to as a sort of written destiny and something that was inevitable :/

 

[Empty Smile]

I don't feel bad because others are having better lives than me, plus I don't want to be like them. My life may be hell, but it's my hell and no one is taking away the only thing I have.

 

[Painted Bird]

@StillWaiting I don't consider "living life to the fullest" as a winning situation, so in my eyes you're not a loser. It's just another label made by the society, by the majority. I reject their labels.

 

[StillWaiting]

@StillWaiting I don't consider "living life to the fullest" as a winning situation, so in my eyes you're not a loser. It's just another label made by the society, by the majority. I reject their labels.

Thank you so much.
I feel like I am the only one who lost my way while I was in school today.
Everyone were with their cliques or heading somewhere. I was just standing there.

 

[Painted Bird]

@StillWaiting You were standing there being a true, special person looking at the herd of sheep.

 

[StillWaiting]

@StillWaiting You were standing there being a true, special person looking at the herd of sheep.

Sometimes it makes me wonder if I was like them, I won't have ended up like this. Because of how I am now, I ended up thinking too much about life that I realized that life isn't worth it