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neurotoxic

neurotoxic

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Never said that. it probably isnt. but feeding into an ideology that teaches young men that life is hopeless, love is fake, and accountability doesnt exist is absolutely your fault.
As someone who isnt conventionally attractive for a man, fuck anyone who tries to sell me an ideology like that. There's already enough outside my control, shame on anyone who tries to sell me defeatism.
 
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makebelieve

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Apr 19, 2022
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Never said that. it probably isnt. but feeding into an ideology that teaches young men that life is hopeless, love is fake, and accountability doesnt exist is absolutely your fault.
Being aware of shit I cant control does not mean I don't account for my mistakes.
 
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Being aware of shit I cant control does not mean I don't account for my mistakes.
I'm not talking about your personal behavior, if you're on here you're obviously saner than most blackpillers. Blackpill as an ideology attempts to absolve men of responsibility for shitty behavior, and you asked the issue with blackpill.
The problem is the extremes blackpill is designed to push men towards. Each step is acceptable from the perspective of the average dude and could hold up on its own, but put it all together you have an extremely nihilistic ideology that absolutely poses a risk.
 
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hey, I can't deny the convenience of your views. If people are inherently shallow, and your only flaws are inherent as well, than there never has to be any responsibility on you. If anyone implies otherwise, you can just accuse them of being a bluepilled normie who doesn't understand reality. Easy-peasy and always everyone else's fault.

Lookism absolutely exists, but blackpill as collection of views is so rigid that it accepts no nuance and there's no room for personal responsibility or accountability whatsoever, and living like that eventually turns even the nice guys into the worst type of incel.
What responsibility? Of being ugly by genetics? Because when you hear time and time again, unprompted, thousands of times (at this point) things like "hideous", "horrible", "ugly", "where did that come from", "why do i have eyes", etc, over and over, no matter what, and most importantly, unwarranted (unless idk someone buying something at a grocery store is deemed acceptable as a target for workers there to... "comment" about, or idk, the girlfriend of your cousin saying that in a family gathering as if I cannot hear it, or... I could literally list hundreds of them but they end up merging basically in my mind tbh)... but also in a way which literally ignores that I'm presently there, hearing it, and most importantly, treated as a non-human, then, I frankly have no clue what responsability I have here. This isn't about an average guy which whoever thinks when they think about blackpill, because those have it very easy let me say that, this is about someone who is openly considered hideous, and frankly not human at all.

So, look, I don't doubt there is guys who have let's be honest no actual problems and are making themselves miserable by choice at this point, but I HAVE NO PLACE IN THIS WORLD, statistically by half of the planet. And before you say "how do you know it's all women who hate you?", well, if psychological studies needed to be answered by all of humanity then there wouldn't be any studies at all, meaning I can with absolute certainty and property infer that yes, all women find me hideous except for my mother (debatable btw).
 
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