Feelingsruiner

Feelingsruiner

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Nov 8, 2019
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I am sorry that this sounds so dumb and pathetic and childish but I'm feeling very alone. And I would definitely be "happy" -less sad would be more appropriate- to have friends. Do people even become friends on here or do we all have to remain anonymous?
Are there any people out there feeling the same about needing friends to feel better?
I am a French girl in my mid twenties if that matters.
Are there people from France or the UK? Preferably because we could eventually meet one day? but I would definitely accept friends from anywhere.
Thanks to everyone who will answer and/or contact me. :heart:
 
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Eren

Eren

Si hablas español mándame un MP
Oct 27, 2018
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Hi, I don't think it's "dumb" to feel alone, I feel only constantly, I don't have friends in real life, if you want us to talk and be friends Im here :)
 
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I'm exhausted

Living in constant fear. I need cats!!
Jul 12, 2019
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I'm here if you want to talk and be friends, though I don't know if you want to with someone a decade older lol. But my door, as long I'm still here, is open.
 
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mathieu

mathieu

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Jun 5, 2019
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Salut~
you're welcome to message me if you want to chat. i'm on the other side of the world though.
 
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pole

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Sep 18, 2018
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bonjour!! doesnt sound pathetic or child at all. message away, were all ears.
 
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stellabelle

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Dec 14, 2018
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I am sorry that this sounds so dumb and pathetic and childish but I'm feeling very alone. And I would definitely be "happy" -less sad would be more appropriate- to have friends. Do people even become friends on here or do we all have to remain anonymous?
Are there any people out there feeling the same about needing friends to feel better?
I am a French girl in my mid twenties if that matters.
Are there people from France or the UK? Preferably because we could eventually meet one day? but I would definitely accept friends from anywhere.
Thanks to everyone who will answer and/or contact me. :heart:
@JOT is a lovely friend, also on your side of the ocean.
Lots of folks all over the world
Have you downloaded discord yet?
Some users have chat servers to poke into and talk every now and again. SS has its own as well.

You don't sound pathetic or childish.
 
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puppy9

puppy9

au revoir
Jun 13, 2019
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I am sorry that this sounds so dumb and pathetic and childish but I'm feeling very alone. And I would definitely be "happy" -less sad would be more appropriate- to have friends. Do people even become friends on here or do we all have to remain anonymous?
Are there any people out there feeling the same about needing friends to feel better?
I am a French girl in my mid twenties if that matters.
Are there people from France or the UK? Preferably because we could eventually meet one day? but I would definitely accept friends from anywhere.
Thanks to everyone who will answer and/or contact me. :heart:
I wanna hangout with members here irl, but they're all far awayyyyyy....
 
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LivingToLong

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Feb 23, 2019
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Ah yes, France can be a lonely place, I think I read something recently that suggested it. I live right in the middle of France, en pleine campagne, and it can be very boring and lonely, particularly in the winter. I'm not French and I find the French people I know to be very friendly but only to a point. They are polite and kind but also very respectful and somewhat reserved. Tbh, I dont really understand 'the rules' of friendship in general, and particularly in France. I think it takes a long time to make 'real' friends here.

@Feelingsruiner I feel your sadness, I have some sense of what it is like. Having good and true friends does make you happier, if only a little bit for a bit of time.
 
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Feelingsruiner

Feelingsruiner

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Nov 8, 2019
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Thank you to everyone for your answers, I was not expecting so many replies and DMs, I am a bit overwhelmed :ahhha:... I will answer to you all, sorry if I'm slow :/
 
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Sensei

Sensei

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Nov 4, 2019
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What a lovely initiative! I think it would be wonderful to be your friend. I'm from Scandinavia so I guess it's within reach. However, I'm twenty years older than you and bipolar, so there are certainly better options than me here. :tongue:
 
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Feelingsruiner

Feelingsruiner

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Nov 8, 2019
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@JOT is a lovely friend, also on your side of the ocean.
Lots of folks all over the world
Have you downloaded discord yet?
Some users have chat servers to poke into and talk every now and again. SS has its own as well.

You don't sound pathetic or childish.

Thank you for your reply, unfortunately I do not use discord (and am not sure I will create a profile).
I wanna hangout with members here irl, but they're all far awayyyyyy....

Oh I'm sorry for you... Where are you from?
 
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Boochky

Boochky

Fat, bipolar, and hairy. (Sorry boys, I’m taken.)
Feb 23, 2019
334
@Feelingsruiner How sweet. I've made a few friends (such as they are) on here. @puppy9 is one of them.

I'm blessed to have been on a cool forum 99 through 2006ish with some awesome peeps. I have most of them on Facebook now. I message a lot of people. Some of my favorites are in India; they're so positive and spiritual, even if they don't understand that I need my bipolar meds.

I hope you find some good friends, Feelings! I'd love to be one of them! :) Happy thanksgiving if you're celebrating.

Take good care!
 
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DoesANameEvenMatter

Young and Suicidal
Jun 15, 2019
49
i'll be ur friend/meme dealer. hit me up anytime
 
LonelyHopelessDude

LonelyHopelessDude

Student
Dec 17, 2019
102
I would always love to help, I'm also is search of Friends.
Btw we live in the same country
 

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