I'm starting to hate boys my age

[Benjiii]

Better body, better face, they get more dates, etc. When I see or think about any young person my age or around that age, I get thoughts that I'm way behind them or that I'm not good enough, you know, that kind of crap. I even started to dislike some of my good friends. It sucks to compare myself so much, but unfortunately, that's just how my stupid brain works. I'm male of 19, by the way.

 

[DownwardSpiral]

Yea me too. I'm objectively behind and I can't stand watching people succeed with minimal effort while I struggle with basic things. It's not their fault, but it bothers me too much. Everyone talks about their girlfriends and jobs and future goals, but I have nothing to add to that so I stand out as the obvious loser. Can't talk about the struggles of being lonely or depressed or unemployed either because it brings down the mood, and nobody cares.

 

[Abyss Dweller]

It's natural to want to experience certain things and be sad that you haven't yet.

But comparing yourself to others really leads to nowhere. There's nothing wrong with experiencing stuff later or in your own unique way.
Let normies be normies. We are not normies. Big whoop :)

 

[Benjiii]

Dejemos que la gente común sea común. Nosotros no somos comunes. ¡Qué importa!

Thanks, I'll try to adopt that mindset.

Sí, a mí también. Estoy objetivamente rezagado y no soporto ver a la gente triunfar con un mínimo esfuerzo mientras yo lucho con cosas básicas. No es culpa suya, pero me molesta muchísimo. Todos hablan de sus novias, sus trabajos y sus metas futuras, pero yo no tengo nada que aportar, así que destaco como el perdedor evidente. Tampoco puedo hablar de las dificultades de la soledad, la depresión o el desempleo porque desanima a la gente y a nadie le importa

It's difficult, but we must remember that we have our own difficulties that led us to this forum, so we will always lose in the comparison. We must accept this and work on what hurts us, or simply not give importance to other people.