ashfall
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- Jan 1, 2022
- 47
I can't do it and I've been kidding myself thinking that I could. I haven't attended a single class or submitted a piece of homework since before Christmas and I completely failed my exams. I've been putting off making a decision but honestly, this is the only option. I'm so terrified and embarrassed at the thought of telling people I couldn't do it.
My younger sister goes to the same uni, is also in her first year and is doing a similar course to me. She has made loads of friends, joined societies, volunteers, goes out every night, has a part-time job and still gets good grades. She's pretty and smart and completely normal. She doesn't have a deformity, ADHD, dyspraxia or ASD. She is everything I wish I could be. I've tried so hard to 'fake it til I make it' but I'm too depressed and when I'm not depressed I'm consumed by anxiety. I can only keep up the charade of being normal and happy for so long before I get too tired and start to withdraw. I'm already repeating this year for medical reasons and it was supposed to be easy. I had all the notes from the first semester last year and most of the assignments were similar. I was too tired though. Too exhausted to do anything. And now I've completely fucked it up.
I'm weird and I always have been. I'm fine at making friends but then I mess up and they realise I'm weird or I get so worried they'll start to hate me that I push them away first.
I can't pretend it's anyone's fault but my own. I can't make it through a single social interaction without saying something stupid and wanting to die because of it. I'm so so stupid. I'm bad at remembering people's names and faces and I constantly worry whenever I'm out that I should know someone and they know me but I've forgotten them. I find it hard to recognise people I've known for years sometimes. I also live in constant fear that one day someone will attack me and hurt me and I won't be able to remember their face. And then they could be anyone.
I'm just not well suited to living. I'm so hypersensitive to everything that the world hurts so much. Every time I read about anything sad happening in the world like Israel-Palestine conflict or another climate change disaster it breaks me all over again. I can't even watch bloody comedy movies because I find the second-hand embarrassment physically painful. The world hurts too much so I spend all my time hiding from it and blocking out my thoughts.
I know it's stupid but college has always represented having a future for me. It's how you get a job, discover yourself and meet the friends you have for life. I know loads of people don't go to college and are happy and successful but dropping out feels like I'm finally admitting and fully committing to the fact I have no future. I'm letting go of the person I might have been. Ctb is my only path forward.
My younger sister goes to the same uni, is also in her first year and is doing a similar course to me. She has made loads of friends, joined societies, volunteers, goes out every night, has a part-time job and still gets good grades. She's pretty and smart and completely normal. She doesn't have a deformity, ADHD, dyspraxia or ASD. She is everything I wish I could be. I've tried so hard to 'fake it til I make it' but I'm too depressed and when I'm not depressed I'm consumed by anxiety. I can only keep up the charade of being normal and happy for so long before I get too tired and start to withdraw. I'm already repeating this year for medical reasons and it was supposed to be easy. I had all the notes from the first semester last year and most of the assignments were similar. I was too tired though. Too exhausted to do anything. And now I've completely fucked it up.
I'm weird and I always have been. I'm fine at making friends but then I mess up and they realise I'm weird or I get so worried they'll start to hate me that I push them away first.
I can't pretend it's anyone's fault but my own. I can't make it through a single social interaction without saying something stupid and wanting to die because of it. I'm so so stupid. I'm bad at remembering people's names and faces and I constantly worry whenever I'm out that I should know someone and they know me but I've forgotten them. I find it hard to recognise people I've known for years sometimes. I also live in constant fear that one day someone will attack me and hurt me and I won't be able to remember their face. And then they could be anyone.
I'm just not well suited to living. I'm so hypersensitive to everything that the world hurts so much. Every time I read about anything sad happening in the world like Israel-Palestine conflict or another climate change disaster it breaks me all over again. I can't even watch bloody comedy movies because I find the second-hand embarrassment physically painful. The world hurts too much so I spend all my time hiding from it and blocking out my thoughts.
I know it's stupid but college has always represented having a future for me. It's how you get a job, discover yourself and meet the friends you have for life. I know loads of people don't go to college and are happy and successful but dropping out feels like I'm finally admitting and fully committing to the fact I have no future. I'm letting go of the person I might have been. Ctb is my only path forward.