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wannarest
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- Jan 10, 2021
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Evreyone ignoring me, even here no one answer my pm or chat
Great advice!I am like you, sometimes I feel invisible and it makes me insecure too :) What I do is that I try to make others feel seen by reading and liking and quoting them. It helps a lot and sometimes they notice me back.
If I had such social skills, wouldn't be here in SS
If you dont mind my asking, why is it that you havnt heard from your wife for a month?I think I can relate. Every day I feel completely invisible and inconsequential. There's only one person whose attention I really care about, my wife/best friend, and I haven't seen or heard from her in a month.
I don't completely understand it myself. She said she needed time to think. She won't answer or acknowledge my attempts at reaching out. But then, her profile picture on Facebook is still a picture of the two of us, which gives me hope.If you dont mind my asking, why is it that you havnt heard from your wife for a month?
Well I will hope for you both as well. I recommend staying strong and keeping the emotions in check. You can use this experience to achieve a greater mastery over them. Women from all my experience (mostly american women) tend to not respect men who are too emotional or come off as being insecure and needy. So if you have that going against you, then work on building yourself up with a stronger and more independent character.I don't completely understand it myself. She said she needed time to think. She won't answer or acknowledge my attempts at reaching out. But then, her profile picture on Facebook is still a picture of the two of us, which gives me hope.
I left her a voicemail and told her I missed her and cried a tiny bit. I didn't say anything I regret or didn't mean. And I don't think I've ever come off as desperate. Just understandably upset, I think. And I haven't tried too many times to reach out, I don't think. I will try to be stronger from now on though. Thank you.I recommend staying strong and keeping the emotions in check.
You're welcome and if you need someone to talk to feel free to PM/DM me.I left her a voicemail and told her I missed her and cried a tiny bit. I didn't say anything I regret or didn't mean. And I don't think I've ever come off as desperate. Just understandably upset, I think. And I haven't tried too many times to reach out, I don't think. I will try to be stronger from now on though. Thank you.