im a loser

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my semester just started and im alr about to miss like 20 assignments all due today. i was too dumb to place in my classes on time so i joined everything weeks late and no one is extending deadlines. now im being reminded of how incapable i am and all my other failures in life. if i wasnt so bad i would have friends helping me. all i do is eat and mope about how lonely i am so i wouldnt wanna be friends with me either. im kinda scared to see my grades plummet so quickly. i wish i had friends. i wish i was naturally smart too. death would be the best gift rn

 

[Quantum_Marten0302]

I never cared about my grades or anything like that which is why i dropped out in highschool. Dont see the point of caring about anything when im alone

 

[Thia]

I'd suggest dropping some classes if possible and focus on the remaining classes. A few bad assignments should not be enough to nullify your chances at passing.

I took a full course load, around ten classes each semester. The workload killed me and ended up being detrimental because I couldn't afford to spend enough time on each class.

 

[Jadeith]

Only thing you got wrong is... planning. As a result everything else failed as you were unable to meet deadlines. One mistake doesn't make you a loser. There's no way to determine if you would fail all those planned classes provided they were planned correctly.

 

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I never cared about my grades or anything like that which is why i dropped out in highschool. Dont see the point of caring about anything when im alone

i'd do the same but im not allowed

I'd suggest dropping some classes if possible and focus on the remaining classes. A few bad assignments should not be enough to nullify your chances at passing.

i cant i'd get kicked out, im already on track to fail

Only thing you got wrong is... planning. As a result everything else failed as you were unable to meet deadlines. One mistake doesn't make you a loser. There's no way to determine if you would fail all those planned classes provided they were planned correctly.

one mistake maybe but what does make me a loser is being unable to help myself after the fact, and also being friendless and loveless

 

[katara]

I never cared about my grades or anything like that which is why i dropped out in highschool. Dont see the point of caring about anything when im alone

Same I couldn't even wake up to catch the bus. My mom didn't care. That's how I dropped out

 

[Jadeith]

one mistake maybe but what does make me a loser is being unable to help myself after the fact, and also being friendless and loveless

Cannot agree. Your mis-planning left you overwhelmed with tasks you couldn't possibly finish on time so it is only natural that you are unable to solve everything right away. You need time to properly asses the situation, possible solutions and their outcomes and then plan again. IF your mind allows you to because, let's be honest, when overwhelmed, your mind tends to play dirty tricks on you and standing up on your own requires shitton of effort.

As for friendless and loveless - making meaningful connection nowadays is pretty darn difficult. That's the landscape we're currently living in. You neither create it nor asked to be born into it. So no, existing in an environment that does not promote friendship or more romantic interactions does not make you a loser. Besides, and i'm unfortunately speaking from experience, it is better to be friendless than surrounded by fake ones. Remember that betrayal never comes from enemies.

 

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i smashed my phone to pieces because i missed about all my classes this week and several projects and essays. i am entirely to blame