If you got a note from someone who has ctb what would you want it to say?

[filthystray]

So basically if one of your loved ones left you a note what would you want to be included in it. When I write mine I want to make sure I touch all the bases. Not currently certain if there may be one I'm not thinking of

 

[WAITING TO DIE]

1: None of you were to blame.
2: Please be glad that I am no longer suffering.
3: I love you all, yet please forgive me.

 

[riamu]

if it was for me specifically? i'd like to be assured it wasn't my fault (if that was the case, no need for you to lie after your death after all) and to be reminded of my best moments with that person. if you're writing different notes to specific people then try to include what your best memories with that person were, i'm sure they'd love to know

 

[Darkover]

lifes the shittest thing that ever happened to me
i wouldnt want to exist ever again
i just hope we are nothing for all time

 

[Huggs]

I don't know if I'd be a good gauge of what other people would want, because I'm pro choice for a lot of people. But I'd want to know why they are taking their own life, that it's not impulsive, that they've made peace with and are absolutely sure of their decision, and that this has been building for a very long time, because the thought that they took their own life over something that could have been resolved would really tear away at me, not as much as losing them but it would linger for the rest of my life along with the loss. I'd want to know if there's something I could have done, if they were angry at me.
I think if they've been a source of love and support in your life definitely talk about that and emphasize they couldn't have fixed this because it's something completely outside of them that lead there. What riamu mentions, recounting good memories with them, is also a great idea.

 

[Death is my goal]

idk, doubt it's gonna happen so I'd rather not to think about it

 

[loopdaloop]

i'd just want it to be written in their own words

 

[FuneralCry]

People can write what they want in their note, it's a personal decision and those who continue to stay here aren't owed an explanation as suicide is a human right that never needs to be justified.
I will always see it as very much understandable if someone decides to cease existing on their own terms, it's all that feels rational to me wanting to permanently escape from all future suffering in this futile and unnecessary existence. Simply just existing is enough to make me wish to sleep eternally.