If every body in social circles, environment, well eveywhere talk about you in an humiliating way, ostrazing you... unemphatic to what got you to...

[Ineedtodie]

Disconnected, gloomy, lacking social apptitude, mentally ill disposition.. How o you cope..what would be your mindset to not be affected by such billitting, degrading, negativity toward you?
How to cooe with such lonliness and contrast? Please answer. And sorry.

 

[makethepainstop]

Disconnected, gloomy, lacking social apptitude, mentally ill disposition.. How o you cope..what would be your mindset to not be affected by such billitting, degrading, negativity toward you?
How to cooe with such lonliness and contrast? Please answer. And sorry.

Find a new circle! At once! I am sorry you suffer so, but there are people who will empathize with you and your pain! I wish I could hug you, in a good very firm three-minute hug!

 

[Someone123]

Disconnected, gloomy, lacking social apptitude, mentally ill disposition.. How o you cope..what would be your mindset to not be affected by such billitting, degrading, negativity toward you?
How to cooe with such lonliness and contrast? Please answer. And sorry.

This is really tough, I've been through similar things- loneliness is the worst thing. Finding some way to connect with others in a positive way is the key. Youtube is a good resource when people post a lot of videos to try to help with problems like this. Searching there by "how to make friends", "how to connect with others", etc can give some good ideas- people with real solutions do post here, so some of these may be worth checking out. Please note that I haven't watched these videos, I just picked some that looked like they could help- I did watch the beginning parts of them to see if they seemed on the right track, though.

 

[Lotus]

I don't know, but know that there's a lot of us and most of us are suffering in silence not knowing how to cope with being mistreated. I cannot say I do not get affected by these people because they are slowly killing me from inside. It is very important to find an environment that accepts and includes you, but that can be hard to find, and also scary when you have had bad experiences beforehand.

Good luck on your way forward. I wish I could do more to make it less hard for you.

 

[enviro400mmc]

what would be your mindset to not be affected by such billitting, degrading, negativity toward you?

I don't have one. My inability to deal with this is what keeps on dragging me back into a cycle where I end up wanting to kill myself...

 

[Rairii]

Disconnected, gloomy, lacking social apptitude, mentally ill disposition.. How o you cope..what would be your mindset to not be affected by such billitting, degrading, negativity toward you?
How to cooe with such lonliness and contrast? Please answer. And sorry.

You have no reason to apologize. What you're going through is terrible. I know things like that affect me terribly. The best thing I did was just cut those people off. Yeah, I'm alone now but at least I don't have to hear all the crap that people are saying. All of that is easier said than done, I know. I don't really have much to offer than that.

Regardless, I do hope this situation you can step away from and are able to find better people in your life. You don't deserve to be treated badly.

 

[Ineedtodie]

Find a new circle! At once! I am sorry you suffer so, but there are people who will empathize with you and your pain! I wish I could hug you, in a good very firm three-minute hug!

Thanks for replying and for your kind thoughts. Everybody is changing their social circle. I agree . I know its hard to get there. Though Idk that there will be people who would empathize in an honest way irl. People seems completely oblivious of this kind of struggle and rather not engage. My best option is have my own business as way of living as well as way of connection perhaps. Havn't thought of the later
aspect. This process is obviously hard to achieve.
Thanks for your suggestions.

This is really tough, I've been through similar things- loneliness is the worst thing. Finding some way to connect with others in a positive way is the key. Youtube is a good resource when people post a lot of videos to try to help with problems like this. Searching there by "how to make friends", "how to connect with others", etc can give some good ideas- people with real solutions do post here, so some of these may be worth checking out. Please note that I haven't watched these videos, I just picked some that looked like they could help- I did watch the beginning parts of them to see if they seemed on the right track, though.

Thanks for your suggestions and empathy.
I' m 32, i' m convinced that only through working and through my work that it is possible to make any further progress and meaningful interractions. But that just how I feel. Appreciate you sharing.

Regardless, I do hope this situation you can step away from and are able to find better people in your life. You don't deserve to be treated badly.

That's my thought exactly if you can't step away from the situation, It's gonna be tough and discouraging. I hope I find a away to step out somehow.
Glad you you managed to step away.
Thanks for your thoughts and honesty.

I don't have one. My inability to deal with this is what keeps on dragging me back into a cycle where I end up wanting to kill myself...

Exactly where i' m at. Sorry you're feel trapped and are trapped.

I don't know, but know that there's a lot of us and most of us are suffering in silence not knowing how to cope with being mistreated. I cannot say I do not get affected by these people because they are slowly killing me from inside. It is very important to find an environment that accepts and includes you, but that can be hard to find, and also scary when you have had bad experiences beforehand.

Good luck on your way forward. I wish I could do more to make it less hard for you.

Indeed most suffer in silence, seemingly helpless as their environment is rejecting them. We seem all to agree that changing that environment is very crutial part to adapting to a better life. And this process can be very challenging and sorry for the pessimistic pov, it can be almost
impossible. A leap of faith is good and all but Alot of factors need to collide at once. Wich you best of luck and to everyone suffering in silence as well.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

ive been through this time and time again and even tried making new friends but always the new people end off the same bullies, even people on this site have done ruthless personal attacks, so i subscribe to my personal theory that people are all the same shit just in different places .
so i isolate myself and became a hermit until i can ctb.

 

[Ineedtodie]

ive been through this time and time again and even tried making new friends but always the new people end off the same bullies, even people on this site have done ruthless personal attacks, so i subscribe to my personal theory that people are all the same shit just in different places .
so i isolate myself and became a hermit until i can ctb.

People can be tribal and ostrazing. It's fucked up to be in such situation. and somehow they find a way to act like saints and so forgiving like they never been the cruelest existence on earth. Well some people like that others learned humility nd tolerance and how life can be unperfect, unfair and random. What happens to me, can easily happens to you. Hard to naviguate an inherently violent world, ruled by fear, hate and greed. My supposedly only solution is to have my own small coffeshop and my service will be the only genuine interraction with people I feel like I can possibly deal with their crapp that way. But getting there is the real damn challenge.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

only solution is to have my own small coffeshop and my service will be the only genuine interraction with people I feel like I can possibly deal with their crapp that way. But getting there is the real damn challenge.

man that sounds great, i would love to patronize your coffee shop. That sounds so comfortable . I hope you succeed in that.

 

[Ineedtodie]

man that sounds great, i would love to patronize your coffee shop. That sounds so comfortable . I hope you succeed in that.

Thank you. Appreciate the validation.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Thank you. Appreciate the validation.

you can do it friend, achieve your dreams.

 

[Ineedtodie]

you can do it friend, achieve your dreams.

Hopefully, you never really know. Maybe I haven't exhausted all my option. It's trials and errors with perhaps an honest helpful person an some luck( which though by experience never been on my side). It's indeed a dream. Never really hurt more than it already did to seek a place of confort and relative piece. I have to keep my goal in mind.
. Wishing the universe to give me clarity, patience and courage and humility and discernement. If I reach a time when I only need to be home to sleep. this will be my alternative to Ctb.