SectOfValtiel
Attendant of God
- Nov 7, 2022
- 217
She was the only person I ever truly fell in love with
It was my only real relationship, back in 2019, long distance and we met online but still
She was the first person I ever really talked to about suicide, and more than anything I wanted to be this positive affirmation in her life so she didnt *have* to CTB to be at peace- yeah, I wanted to fix her, I know
still wish I could be that more than anything
But neither of us were great to eachother after awhile and things ended kind of explosively
It never got through my dumb ass brain that she was never going to want me again
She ended up blocking me everywhere and I had panic attacks back to back for weeks trying to find somewhere I could still contact her so I could at least talk about it
Eventually the desperation turned into anger and I said and did a lot I regret, enough that if she really didnt hate me before, she probably still does now to this day
I miss her more than anything
Literally since the day I met her she hasnt left my mind, and I dont just say that to be dramatic, every single time my depression hits a low, I think about her- my depression hasnt really left that low in years
The year after she ended things I felt so guilty for how shitty I ended up being to her that I developed a SH habit, every new cut telling myself I deserved it for hurting her
Even had myself convinced that CTBing would be the only way I could do anything positive for her, cause at least I couldnt still be here obsessing and missing her constantly
My life has been shit, empty and lonely and challenging
Meeting her was the first time I was genuinely happy in over a decade, maybe most of my life too
She used to be so kind and caring but I think I ruined that part of her
She was dealing with so much and I wish I could have helped instead of making all of it worse instead
I did try... Im not religious now but I grew up Christian, and there were at least a handful of times I really sat here praying to a God I dont believe in just on the *off chance* someone was listening, so they could make her life a little better than it is
I even prayed for her after the breakup, more then
Ive talked about it in therapy, about three years and three different therapists worth, there just isnt anything I can seem to do to move on
Not even other relationships... I ended one when I realized I was still in love with her
One therapist even convinced me hating her was better than missing her and I hate him for that
I sit here thinking about it and... if I were to ever actually CTB, shes the only person I would bother writing a letter to
at least to apologize one more time
tell her I love her one more time
I cant really convince myself anyone in my life cares about me or ever really did, but she gave me genuine happiness- even if in the end she hurt me a lot too
she was the best thing that ever happened to me despite everything
and when I sit here every day trying to distract myself from wishing I was dead
more than literally anything, I just wish she was still here
losing her is a mistake that I think sealed my fate
I know thats pathetic but its the truth
It was my only real relationship, back in 2019, long distance and we met online but still
She was the first person I ever really talked to about suicide, and more than anything I wanted to be this positive affirmation in her life so she didnt *have* to CTB to be at peace- yeah, I wanted to fix her, I know
still wish I could be that more than anything
But neither of us were great to eachother after awhile and things ended kind of explosively
It never got through my dumb ass brain that she was never going to want me again
She ended up blocking me everywhere and I had panic attacks back to back for weeks trying to find somewhere I could still contact her so I could at least talk about it
Eventually the desperation turned into anger and I said and did a lot I regret, enough that if she really didnt hate me before, she probably still does now to this day
I miss her more than anything
Literally since the day I met her she hasnt left my mind, and I dont just say that to be dramatic, every single time my depression hits a low, I think about her- my depression hasnt really left that low in years
The year after she ended things I felt so guilty for how shitty I ended up being to her that I developed a SH habit, every new cut telling myself I deserved it for hurting her
Even had myself convinced that CTBing would be the only way I could do anything positive for her, cause at least I couldnt still be here obsessing and missing her constantly
My life has been shit, empty and lonely and challenging
Meeting her was the first time I was genuinely happy in over a decade, maybe most of my life too
She used to be so kind and caring but I think I ruined that part of her
She was dealing with so much and I wish I could have helped instead of making all of it worse instead
I did try... Im not religious now but I grew up Christian, and there were at least a handful of times I really sat here praying to a God I dont believe in just on the *off chance* someone was listening, so they could make her life a little better than it is
I even prayed for her after the breakup, more then
Ive talked about it in therapy, about three years and three different therapists worth, there just isnt anything I can seem to do to move on
Not even other relationships... I ended one when I realized I was still in love with her
One therapist even convinced me hating her was better than missing her and I hate him for that
I sit here thinking about it and... if I were to ever actually CTB, shes the only person I would bother writing a letter to
at least to apologize one more time
tell her I love her one more time
I cant really convince myself anyone in my life cares about me or ever really did, but she gave me genuine happiness- even if in the end she hurt me a lot too
she was the best thing that ever happened to me despite everything
and when I sit here every day trying to distract myself from wishing I was dead
more than literally anything, I just wish she was still here
losing her is a mistake that I think sealed my fate
I know thats pathetic but its the truth