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Nick
- Aug 24, 2023
- 36
To clear things up, my dad isn't abusive. But he hasn't been a major part of my life. He moved out when I was 2 months old and we rarely visit each other since he lives across the world. When I was 6, my brother (who was 9) visited my dad alone for the first time. It was only for a week. He came back crying. Apparently, my dad got mad at my brother for forgetting the luggage even though it wasn't my brother's responsibility. The whole week was spent with them arguing. That was the first time I was genuinely afraid of my dad. He acts kind when my mother is around, but when we're left alone, he gets careless and forgets about us.
He also never paid as much attention to me as he did my two older brothers. I'm the only "girl" in my family (I'm trans ftm but he doesn't know). When I was a kid and asked my mom about it, she said it was because he didn't know how to take care of girls. As a result, I was neglected a lot by him. He doesn't know how to take care of kids, let alone a girl.
He's not a bad person. He can be really fun to be around and I still love him, but I rarely see him and whenever I think about him, I think about the bad things.
He also never paid as much attention to me as he did my two older brothers. I'm the only "girl" in my family (I'm trans ftm but he doesn't know). When I was a kid and asked my mom about it, she said it was because he didn't know how to take care of girls. As a result, I was neglected a lot by him. He doesn't know how to take care of kids, let alone a girl.
He's not a bad person. He can be really fun to be around and I still love him, but I rarely see him and whenever I think about him, I think about the bad things.