Venting I wish my boyfriend cheats on me

[spiderwbs]

ngl, as much as I love my boyfriend, and I hope he never leaves me -- I also wish sometimes he could cheat on me because I know there are so many other people out there for him who do not want to kill themselves and who are not crazy. There are tons of pretty people, pretty girls who are so nicer and who could do better. Maybe I can die and he wouldn't care, I wish that he wished for me to die. He can leave me.

 

[LaVieEnRose]

You don't deserve to be cheated on. If he doesn't want to be with you he should break up with you first. There are lots of people he is probably compatible with, but he is still with you.

 

[tiger b]

Those others aren't you. He's chosen you. Everyone has different preferences.

I wish you well.

 

[NoHorizon]

Nobody deserves to be cheated on. It's absolutely heart wrenching and can affect you for years. Like tiger said, he has chosen you, not all the other women you think he'd be better off with.

 

[lostall_hope11]

I feel this so hard -- my partner is constantly asking me to stop pushing them away. I just know that there are so many normal guys out there who aren't actively suicidal -- who are happy instead of sad / broken. ofc their love for me makes it all that much harder. But people love who they love, they don't really get a say in it. It's hard to accept but it doesn't mean he's lying