I wish I was social

[Parnate]

I see people who are social, who have dozens of friends. They go on trips with their friends. I am so jealous of them. I wish I too could have done that. Wish I had my own friends group. But I feel uncomfortable with most people.
There are very friends whose company I genuinely enjoy, but they are married and have got busy.
many people socialise after office, I wish I could but I don't have the energy left to do that.
I guess it is in my fate

 

[R. A.]

How about hobby groups? Some find it easier when there's a "thing" to do. Could be on days off when you have more energy, or online even.

 

[Lady_V]

God this sounds like a mirror with my experience. Being social is something you can work on but how when you have 0 energy??? It ufortunely gets worse the older you get too :(

 

[katara]

I am the same way, even with ppl on here I try reaching out and asking for advice and I get ignored bc people only want to talk to normal ppl I guess

 

[antithesis]

Autistic & social anxiety here, I feel you and sending you a big virtual hug
Making friends as an adult is such a mystery to me. Following this post for future tips ahah

 

[Pluto]

 

[Freedombus'25]

I relate. I want to be social but lack the energy majority of the time. Don't per say have much solutions or advice atm : (

Hope ur able to find smthin that helps